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Would you consider the hijab/burqa degrading to women and why?
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RE: Would you consider the hijab/burqa degrading to women and why?
(November 25, 2015 at 12:26 am)MysticKnight Wrote: I think if you look at high divorce rates in some societies and some of the high cheating rates in some countries, I think from that perspective, these type of rules aimed at preventing the stuff that leads up to the cheating is important.  

Plus in the past, you couldn't even DNA test who your father was. So this whole emphasis on these aspects of society I think has a wisdom.

Naturally I don't think showing your hair is immodest but I think there is a wisdom, that, now with time, is becoming more and more manifest to some of us in applying these rules.

Or you can believe your husband and wife will be faithful with 30%-60% cheat rate in US for example. 2-3% of children are believed to product of infidelity.

Studies also show serial monogamy is very hard (not impossible to do). So I would say divine help regarding this matter is welcomed.

Or it could also be the fact that middle eastern countries tend to penalize adultery stronger than other nations (some of which don't penalize it at all).  In the US in most cases it's a small fine, or grounds for divorce.    No European country has criminalized adultery.  You also have honor killings.

My husband and I have a good healthy relationship, and I trust him.  And he trusts me.  Trust is very important in a relationship.
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RE: Would you consider the hijab/burqa degrading to women and why?
Well mentally its no different from the christian or maybe judaistic views, that women has to submit to men Tongue

But... well i guess if i assume right. Submit to god, have a wife and get on... I guess someone is ok with that .. if god is ok that is Tongue
Well like i am just against burka and niqab, if muslim women want to wear. hijab or other things aslong as it doesnt cover your whole face then i am ok. Its not because of dislike, its purely because of identity reason if you go to a bank or something, you need to have a face to identify with Tongue

But i dont personally mind it, but i am not 100% ok with it, since if the idea of being called a slut or hoe for not following what your parents tell you is awful. But i am sure there are some muslims who simply do it just because of their religion and not parents. But yeah its that authoritative stuff i have a problem with. Which is why i kinda see why some dont like it at all because then it can signal that its ok to use threats and stuff to keep female in line. Since its culture and traditions and religious supremacy that is the reason for this.

In my view, if a culture is bad then its better to have non culture at all.
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RE: Would you consider the hijab/burqa degrading to women and why?
Quote:In my view, if a culture is bad then its better to have non culture at all.
You realize how idiotic it sounds to suggest Humans should have no culture? That's like saying Humans should live isolated. Where there is society and social interactions, there will be culture.
Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you

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