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RE: Hope for America!!
April 16, 2016 at 1:52 pm
You
Fucking
Sicko.
Children need discipline. Hitting is not discipline, it is the temper tantrum of an adult who has no discipline over themselves.
My child is extremely well behaved, and I've never even threatened to raise a hand to her, let alone actually done it.
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RE: Hope for America!!
April 16, 2016 at 1:57 pm
The action/reaction of the unintelligent.
Being told you're delusional does not necessarily mean you're mental.
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RE: Hope for America!!
April 16, 2016 at 2:34 pm
(This post was last modified: April 16, 2016 at 2:37 pm by Crossless2.0.)
Those who can raise children with love, respect, and firm guidance do so.
Those who can't hit.
Violent authoritarians, whether in the home or in the government, are all impotent, over-grown children who like to tell themselves that they are the only responsible adults around. The rest of us recognize them for the bullies and clownishly transparent frauds they are.
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RE: Hope for America!!
April 16, 2016 at 3:22 pm
I spanked my son a few times as he was growing up, open hand only.
I can't watch the video right now, but the still shows what looks like a cricket bat being used to pummel a child. Completely wrong on several different levels.
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RE: Hope for America!!
April 16, 2016 at 3:36 pm
I don't think it's good for any child, in most cases it'll go to one of two extremes depending on the child's personality. It will either force "good behaviour" by eliminating a child's confidence and making them fear authority rather than respect it (there's a difference), or it will teach them violence is ok and make their behaviour worse.
Either way you're fucking up your child's future by making them either a pathetic coward or a violent bully.
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RE: Hope for America!!
April 16, 2016 at 3:44 pm
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(April 16, 2016 at 1:52 pm)Aroura Wrote: Hitting is not discipline, it is the temper tantrum of an adult who has no discipline over themselves.
This.
@ Drich
You're one sick fuck, Drich - though I suppose I shouldn't be surprised, considering the "might makes right" religion and worldview you subscribe to.
If you ever have kids, and you hit them, I can only hope that you'll do it in front of witnesses so that you can be properly dealt with.
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RE: Hope for America!!
April 16, 2016 at 3:47 pm
(April 16, 2016 at 3:22 pm)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: I spanked my son a few times as he was growing up, open hand only.
I can't watch the video right now, but the still shows what looks like a cricket bat being used to pummel a child. Completely wrong on several different levels.
Looked like a felony assault to me. Sickening.
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RE: Hope for America!!
April 16, 2016 at 5:41 pm
As usual, Dripshit has ignored all the recent studies on the long-term affects of corporal punishment, and just gone to his wholly babble verse.
Here is a relatively recent summary of current research (2006) compiled by Anne B. Smith:
https://www.msd.govt.nz/about-msd-and-ou...4-127.html
Quotes from the article:
"Physical or corporal punishment is the use of force to cause pain, but not injury, for the purpose of correction or control (Straus and Stewart 1999). Discipline is the guidance of children’s moral, emotional and physical development, enabling children to take responsibility for themselves when they are older (Holden 2002, Wissow 2002). "
"Corporal punishment is associated with children’s aggression and other antisocial behaviour (towards peers, siblings and adults). Corporal punishment may legitimise violence for children in interpersonal relationships because they tend to internalise the social relations they experience (Vygotsky 1978). Ironically, the behaviour that parents are most likely to intend to prevent when they physically punish children is exactly the behaviour that they are likely to be strengthening."
"Only one desirable outcome for child behaviour has been associated with physical punishment – in some, but not all, studies – and this outcome is immediate compliance. When compliance is just as easily (and effectively) achieved with alternative inductive and positive methods of child rearing and milder forms of punishment, it is unnecessary, risky and unethical to use physical punishment."
"Research on the long-term effects of physical punishment are consistent, and overwhelmingly negative over a wide variety of child development outcomes. The use of physical punishment has been associated with many negative social outcomes, including aggression, disruptive behaviour in school, lack of acceptance by peers, crime and delinquency. Children’s cognitive and intellectual development are also adversely affected by parental use of physical punishment. Physical punishment is linked to insecure attachment and poorer relationships between children and parents, and to a variety of mental health problems, such as anxiety, depression and suicidal ideation."
There is an impressive list of research studies following the article.
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RE: Hope for America!!
April 16, 2016 at 5:48 pm
I'm assuming these women must've had permission from the stupid, shitty parent(s) to beat this kid's ass; Or they have a f*cking deathwish.
Anyone who thinks it's acceptable let people brutalize their children in this manner, has no business being a parent.
I'm going out on a limb here, and giving you the benefit of the doubt in assuming you're trying to make some sort of larger garbage point about pop morality or some shit; And that you're not actually okay with adults fucking toddlers up with weapons.
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RE: Hope for America!!
April 16, 2016 at 5:55 pm
(April 16, 2016 at 5:48 pm)Thena323 Wrote: I'm assuming these women must've had permission from the stupid, shitty parent(s) to beat this kid's ass; Or they have a f*cking deathwish.
Anyone who thinks it's acceptable let people brutalize their children in this manner, has no business being a parent.
I'm going out on a limb here, and giving you the benefit of the doubt in assuming you're trying to make some sort of larger garbage point about pop morality or some shit; And that you're not actually okay with adults fucking toddlers up with weapons.
One of the sad things is that the mother is the one who took the video.
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