Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...

[robvalue]

It feels like there's no reason for me to be important to anyone. I'm just boring old, stupid, worthless and meaningless me.

How many times have I told you how impressed I am by you, Jelloh? You're a good kid, with a good head on your shoulders. Meaningless? Pffff. You're the sweetest bucket of cuteness ever and we all love having you around. I was telling Rob that I want to adopt you. Lol!

Yes, we were talking about what a nice guy you are

I think you've had too many people putting you down and treating you badly. But they are horrible and stupid to do so. You deserve better.

[Thumpalumpacus]

That's a good question. Another one is, who do you want to be important to?

Just important to somebody. Anybody! Just for once 

In life, some people are planets: they orbit others, locked into their gravity, and the only light you see from them is reflected starlight.

Others are stars, they exert an inner force that cannot be denied, they burn their own fuel, they light up the space around them.

Be a star. Be important to yourself, shine with inner light, and others will want to be around you. Like every other person on this planet, you have unique qualities that can enrich everyone around you. Find those qualities in yourself and don't be shy advertising them.

[Athene]

Now I'm thinking I actually wouldn't mind being important to one special person again at some point before dying.
It would probably be kind of fun at times.

Hugs and smoochies, cooking and baking goodies for my man, getting tiny presents, humpity-humping, and general wubby-nubby wovey-dovey.

I could think of more...but, I'm getting a little nauseous.

[Joods]

Not spending enough time with my kid... sucks. I feel like I don't even know her, thanks to a stupid judge making a stupid decision. And I haven't seen the other one in nearly two years. Fuck you, family court judges for ripping my kids away from me. Fuck you.

[Edwardo Piet]

CIJS to everyone:

There are so many lovely and wonderful people on AF

[robvalue]

CIJS to everyone:

There are so many lovely and wonderful people on AF

QED!

I mean...

QFT!

[Edwardo Piet]

Lol

[Little lunch]

Not spending enough time with my kid... sucks. I feel like I don't even know her, thanks to a stupid judge making a stupid decision. And I haven't seen the other one in nearly two years. Fuck you, family court judges for ripping my kids away from me. Fuck you.

My heart goes out to you Nymphdora.
I didn't see my kid for three months and then for two hours a week for six months.
That just killed me. I couldn't go through it again, not without having a breakdown of some sort.
So I realise it must be so hard for you and others in the same position and I also realise how lucky I am.
Life just fucking sucks sometimes.
You're a much stronger person than me.

[account_inactive]

Hugs to everyone going through hard times.

[Jello]

Thank you guys

After all your support, plus a day spent with my IRL friends at college, i feel much better. I really really mean it, when i say thank you. You make my life so much better