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RE: What's Wrong
January 3, 2017 at 7:46 pm
Devestating.
Best of luck as you push through and get the law involved.
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RE: What's Wrong
January 3, 2017 at 7:51 pm
(January 3, 2017 at 7:46 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Devestating.
Best of luck as you push through and get the law involved.
Thank you
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RE: What's Wrong
January 3, 2017 at 10:20 pm
Without more details I'd suggest that you start documenting everything, daily, back up to day one as much as you can. Medical (eat/sleep/bowel/pain......), mental, financial, ............ log every little detail as much as you can every day. Not familiar with Canada but find an atty specific to malpractice.
Giving sympathy, wishing luck.
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RE: What's Wrong
January 3, 2017 at 11:08 pm
(January 3, 2017 at 10:20 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: Without more details I'd suggest that you start documenting everything, daily, back up to day one as much as you can. Medical (eat/sleep/bowel/pain......), mental, financial, ............ log every little detail as much as you can every day. Not familiar with Canada but find an atty specific to malpractice.
Giving sympathy, wishing luck.
Already done really I have a 300 page folder ready to go (this isn't my first legal rodeo so getting access to what I needed fast was easy ) though it's generally for my patients and there families .As for lawyers already got one for the job we have worked together before. and I'm calling on some other help.
Thank you very for the concern i'll keep you all updated
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RE: What's Wrong
January 4, 2017 at 2:26 am
I just found this thread. I'm so sorry for what you're both going through. I can't imagine how heart breaking it must be to suspect this was malpractice.
All we can do is deal with how things are now, and it sounds like you're doing very well in the circumstances. It makes me happy to see true love not being abandoned. My wife has stuck by me through all my illnesses when she could have easily walked away at many points, so I know what it feels like to have someone not give up on you.
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RE: What's Wrong
January 4, 2017 at 2:50 am
(January 4, 2017 at 2:26 am)robvalue Wrote: I just found this thread. I'm so sorry for what you're both going through. I can't imagine how heart breaking it must be to suspect this was malpractice.
All we can do is deal with how things are now, and it sounds like you're doing very well in the circumstances. It makes me happy to see true love not being abandoned. My wife has stuck by me through all my illnesses when she could have easily walked away at many points, so I know what it feels like to have someone not give up on you.
Thanks for the support
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RE: What's Wrong
January 13, 2017 at 11:26 pm
Good news the doctor in question has permanent suspension from the hospital and there are no signs the college will get involved .On April 17th I ill be going to arbitration for damages and if that fails I will go to court I have my legal team established my documentation ready. Thou I'm not slowing down and will continue preparing. On personal note I'm back at work and busy thank goodness 2 of my cases have resolved themselves so that helps .My other has returned from yellow knife and her return was very enthusiastic
. As for my other she varying as one might expect having two people around to take care her helps.
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RE: What's Wrong
January 13, 2017 at 11:47 pm
Can you clarify what form of "preventable malpractice"? Did they fail to clean up properly? Leave a tool in? Cut the wrong area?
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RE: What's Wrong
January 14, 2017 at 1:05 am
(January 13, 2017 at 11:47 pm)Moros Synackaon Wrote: Can you clarify what form of "preventable malpractice"? Did they fail to clean up properly? Leave a tool in? Cut the wrong area?
He was reckless with the knife resulting in sever nerve damage as well as internal hemorrhaging in her legs as well as disturbing her partially mended bones and muscle tissue as well as interfering with previous work that had been done.
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RE: What's Wrong
January 14, 2017 at 1:14 am
Almost sounds like you had an active drunk in the OR
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