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(AMA) I live in a patriarchy. Ask me anything.
#81
RE: (AMA) I live in a patriarchy. Ask me anything.
(March 6, 2017 at 4:06 pm)Nymphadora Wrote: Actually, it's not bullshit. But take it how you want. I think you'd rather ignore it (or go completely ballistic) when someone has something negative to say about you, but you are happy when you can get negative digs in about someone else and not get called out for it. I'm not gonna sugarcoat shit for you because at the end of the day, it's still shit. But you really need to start owning some of the stuff you say in this forum.

Yes it is bullshit. He said I'd been constantly trolling him all over the forums. Responding on topic to this trolling thread weeks and weeks after responding to another thread of his where he asked if people wanted to Skype him and I gave my reasons why I do NOT want to Skype him.... that does NOT fall within the lines of constantly trolling him all over the forums.

He's a fucking liar, as has been demonstrated.
#82
RE: (AMA) I live in a patriarchy. Ask me anything.
It can be hard for us to reasonably assess our own character flaws. I don't know you well enough to comment Hammy, but I get the impression from Nymph's posts that she is asserting you do this with reasonably frequency. Use it as an opportunity to think about how people perceive what you say in general, not as a chance to debate people about the merits and demerits of your actions in a specific case.

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#83
RE: (AMA) I live in a patriarchy. Ask me anything.
Nah she just has a problem with me when I show my emotions. Most people don't have a problem with me.

I don't do this with regular frequency. I only call bigoted morons bigoted morons. I don't see why we should all pretend like Pool created this thread with honest intentions. Especially now it's been proven that he is indeed dishonest. He only starts these threads to cause trouble.

I responded to this thread and another one of his threads weeks and weeks ago where he asked people to Skype him so I warned people of what he is like first. That is not constantly trolling him over the forums.

The fact I speak my mind is something I am proud of rather than a character flaw. Maybe my lack of diplomacy is a character flaw but it's hard to diplomatically let everyone know how full of shit someone is in hopes that others won't waste their time.

I'm just tired of bullshit.

(March 6, 2017 at 4:33 pm)Aristocatt Wrote: Use it as an opportunity to think about how people perceive what you say in general, not as a chance to debate people about the merits and demerits of your actions in a specific case.

I care about the way I am far more than the way I am perceived.
#84
RE: (AMA) I live in a patriarchy. Ask me anything.
Dodgy
#85
RE: (AMA) I live in a patriarchy. Ask me anything.
Oh for fuck's sake nevermind. I'll just nod my head and agree with everyone else like a good boy. Because, yeah, I'm the unreasonable one here by just telling it like it is Rolleyes
#86
RE: (AMA) I live in a patriarchy. Ask me anything.
(March 6, 2017 at 4:37 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: Nah she just has a problem with me when I show my emotions. Most people don't have a problem with me.

You're not in my head. Don't presume to tell others what I think or what I have a problem with. 

Quote:I don't do this with regular frequency.

Yeah you do. It's just that given your level of sensitivity and writing mile long walls of text, no one wants to call you out on it because they don't want to deal with the aftermath that is pages and pages of butthurt.

Quote:I only call bigoted morons bigoted morons.

You freely call anyone you don't like, names. Thread topic is irrelevant. Yet you expect to not have similar treatment aimed at yourself. Your entire initial question in this thread was meant to provoke. Stop trying to spin it as if Pool was intending to be dishonest from the start. 

Quote:I don't see why we should all pretend like Pool created this thread with honest intentions. Especially now it's been proven that he is indeed dishonest. He only starts these threads to cause trouble.

Funny how you are the only person who says that he starts these threads to cause trouble. Yep, he was dishonest. He was dishonest at the moment he said something about a staff member doing something about a post that YOU wrote. Up to that point, he was engaging in his own thread and sharing his opinions about the topic at hand. Just because his opinions were unfavorable and brought about further discussion doesn't mean fuck that there was dishonesty involved. Don't forget that you provoked shit in this thread too. Own your own shit for once.

Quote:I responded to this thread and another one of his threads weeks and weeks ago where he asked people to Skype him so I warned people of what he is like first. That is not constantly trolling him over the forums.

Yep. You responded with your condescending bullshit. Don't tell me that thisor this  wasn't you being condescending, because it was. You also called him an "absolute cretin of a human being". No where in that thread did he say anything to cause you to be such an asshole. Furthermore, Violet had something to say to you as well about it here. As did other people. 
Everyone else in that thread was decent. You were the only one who was a malicious dick and it was completely uncalled for. And now you're acting like your behavior was okay? Give me a fucking break. 

He's not the only member you do this to. Which was my point. *Any* member that you do not find favor with, you instigate shit with, then act like that wasn't your intention when you get called out on it.  

Quote:The fact I speak my mind is something I am proud of rather than a character flaw. Maybe my lack of diplomacy is a character flaw but it's hard to diplomatically let everyone know how full of shit someone is in hopes that others won't waste their time.

I'm just tired of bullshit.

Speaking your mind isn't the problem. Many of us do it. I'm doing it right now. The problem is that you are in complete denial when you get called out on being rude or mean to someone and you always seem to place blame on someone or something else, rather than just own your shit. 

And I, for one, am tired of it.
Perfect example of your text walls: The last two mafia games. 
Perfect example of you infuriating another member: The last mafia game. 
Perfect example of you beating a point to death: Every mafia game you've played in. AND every time someone doesn't agree with you.  

You can't let shit go. I wasn't going to respond until I saw that you sadly attempted to tell others how I feel or what I have a problem with. You don't know fuck all of how I feel or what I have a problem with, unless I choose to tell you, which I didn't. FFS I am so sick and tired of this routine you engage in with others. If I didn't have a life, I'd sit here and go through every thread just to offer up proof but alas, I've got an actual life to live. Deny it all you want, Ham, but anyone with time to spare can clearly see how emotionally unstable you are on these forums. 

And I'm ending this bullshit here because unlike you, I'm an adult who knows when the conversation should be over. 

(March 6, 2017 at 4:33 pm)Aristocatt Wrote: Use it as an opportunity to think about how people perceive what you say in general, not as a chance to debate people about the merits and demerits of your actions in a specific case.

I care about the way I am far more than the way I am perceived.[/quote]

Hahaha what a crock of shit!  You are so utterly concerned with what others think of you here, that it has caused you to write multiple posts over several threads about it. You are a circlejerk of emotions and some of your own posts and threads are proof of that. How many times have you started threads saying you were taking a break from AF only to come back minutes or hours later with more word salad? Talk about being dishonest. You now rank among the top ten disingenuous persons here on AF.

As it is, Aristocatt's mafia game will be my last game because it's tiring and frustrating knowing that you will no doubt cause someone to ragequit the game because of your incessant posts. When that game is over, I'm going to put you on ignore so that I can enjoy this forum without all your crap being spewed everywhere. 

I'm gonna shut up now because I like this place far too much to get myself banned from here.
Disclaimer: I am only responsible for what I say, not what you choose to understand. 
(November 14, 2018 at 8:57 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: Have a good day at work.  If we ever meet in a professional setting, let me answer your question now.  Yes, I DO want fries with that.
#87
RE: (AMA) I live in a patriarchy. Ask me anything.
Going off topic or on topic (I don't even know)

MRA nuts tend to talk about dowries as if it's a disadvantage for men. In reality it'd demeaning for women essentially it goes back to the practice of  her being sold like livestock .
Seek strength, not to be greater than my brother, but to fight my greatest enemy -- myself.

Inuit Proverb

#88
(AMA) I live in a patriarchy. Ask me anything.
(March 5, 2017 at 3:03 am)ignoramus Wrote: Here's the photoshop you requested Pooley.
I trust I did the right thing?

sincerely.

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c'mon man, you know me ...just having some fun...


That's actually a good looking butt. I'd slap the shit out of it.
#89
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Thread locked while its creator is away. Since Pool cannot currently fulfill the purpose of the thread he created, it serves no current function.
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Moved to appropriate forum to await reopening. I will stress this is the Introductions forum - negative posting will not be tolerated from this point on.
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