RE: Otter's Official Television Thread
August 26, 2019 at 9:57 pm
(This post was last modified: August 26, 2019 at 10:24 pm by Rev. Rye.)
Here's a little something that's kind of been weighing on my mind and, since I'm rewatching Mindhunter in preparation for Season 2, this scene just came up:
I'm sure I've mentioned that I have a foot fetish a couple times. When I came back from my vacation, I talked about one woman I met there who kept a New Age shop in Fish Creek. She worked barefoot, and it blew my mind to figure out: my God, this is a girl who really loves going barefoot. Her dusty soles (which I saw when she was looking for a book for Dad) showcased that very well. The closest I ever came to telling her how I felt was, when she asked if I found everything I was looking for, I replied "mostly." I explained to her that seeing someone who works barefoot is more special than seeing some girl barefoot at the beach. Everyone goes barefoot at the beach and there's a good chance if you compliment someone on having pretty feet, they might not take it well. Based on a few early responses, I noticed that many women reacted so negatively that you'd probably guessed I threatened to rape them. I wound up thinking about how, on some level, being a foot fetishist is kind of like being LGBTQ.
Naturally, it isn't a one to one comparison, and I wouldn't expect an LGBTQFF acronym to take off, but I can certainly see some similarities. How many gay people have found themselves pining for some person, only to find out that they're part of the 96.5% that's actually not into that sort of thing? And there's still a non-negligible chance that that person will be so offended that they might kill you and largely get away with it. Then again, at least by this point, media representation of LGBTQ people is actually fairly nuanced (at least when compared with how it was a few decades ago,) and even if public perception is still skewed towards the stereotypical, it seems that in America at least, the public has come to see homosexuality as mostly harmless (at least "mostly" in the same way heterosexuality is mostly harmless.) Foot fetishists, however, well, I'm going to ask you: when's the last time you've ever seen foot fetishism portrayed in a positive (or at least neutral) light in media? As far as the media goes, we're all some kind of predator (or at the very least, a creep with no social skills who doesn't deserve pity.) I was afraid to tell that girl at the shop how I felt because I got the feeling that, if I didn't, I'd regret it, and, if I did, there was a non-negligible chance I'd still regret it. Artist's depiction of how Rye felt the night after (just add a beard and an Aegean fisherman's cap):
Sure, the fact that she seemed to be a barefooter did increase the odds that she'd respond positively to me, but bear in mind: Wikifeet, one of the most foot fetish sites on the web, the only one popular enough to have a Wikipedia article about it, did a poll last year asking "Does your significant other know that you like feet?" 53.4% said no. Yes, the majority of us are so beaten down by society that, even if we have someone to share our lives with, we're too afraid to tell them what we like. No legal pressure from Republicans, just societal pressure from a world that doesn't understand, and maybe just wants to find some group that's still worthy of ridicule.
I know this pales in comparison with issues other groups have to deal with, whether it's people getting shot by cops for having the "wrong" melanin content, or Latin Americans being locked up in what amounts to concentration camps, or women having to deal with rape culture and increasingly brazen misogyny, or Republicans continually pushing the limits of what human rights we can get away with denying LGBTQ people, but it's still something that bugs me and I just had to get it out.
I'm sure I've mentioned that I have a foot fetish a couple times. When I came back from my vacation, I talked about one woman I met there who kept a New Age shop in Fish Creek. She worked barefoot, and it blew my mind to figure out: my God, this is a girl who really loves going barefoot. Her dusty soles (which I saw when she was looking for a book for Dad) showcased that very well. The closest I ever came to telling her how I felt was, when she asked if I found everything I was looking for, I replied "mostly." I explained to her that seeing someone who works barefoot is more special than seeing some girl barefoot at the beach. Everyone goes barefoot at the beach and there's a good chance if you compliment someone on having pretty feet, they might not take it well. Based on a few early responses, I noticed that many women reacted so negatively that you'd probably guessed I threatened to rape them. I wound up thinking about how, on some level, being a foot fetishist is kind of like being LGBTQ.
Naturally, it isn't a one to one comparison, and I wouldn't expect an LGBTQFF acronym to take off, but I can certainly see some similarities. How many gay people have found themselves pining for some person, only to find out that they're part of the 96.5% that's actually not into that sort of thing? And there's still a non-negligible chance that that person will be so offended that they might kill you and largely get away with it. Then again, at least by this point, media representation of LGBTQ people is actually fairly nuanced (at least when compared with how it was a few decades ago,) and even if public perception is still skewed towards the stereotypical, it seems that in America at least, the public has come to see homosexuality as mostly harmless (at least "mostly" in the same way heterosexuality is mostly harmless.) Foot fetishists, however, well, I'm going to ask you: when's the last time you've ever seen foot fetishism portrayed in a positive (or at least neutral) light in media? As far as the media goes, we're all some kind of predator (or at the very least, a creep with no social skills who doesn't deserve pity.) I was afraid to tell that girl at the shop how I felt because I got the feeling that, if I didn't, I'd regret it, and, if I did, there was a non-negligible chance I'd still regret it. Artist's depiction of how Rye felt the night after (just add a beard and an Aegean fisherman's cap):
Sure, the fact that she seemed to be a barefooter did increase the odds that she'd respond positively to me, but bear in mind: Wikifeet, one of the most foot fetish sites on the web, the only one popular enough to have a Wikipedia article about it, did a poll last year asking "Does your significant other know that you like feet?" 53.4% said no. Yes, the majority of us are so beaten down by society that, even if we have someone to share our lives with, we're too afraid to tell them what we like. No legal pressure from Republicans, just societal pressure from a world that doesn't understand, and maybe just wants to find some group that's still worthy of ridicule.
I know this pales in comparison with issues other groups have to deal with, whether it's people getting shot by cops for having the "wrong" melanin content, or Latin Americans being locked up in what amounts to concentration camps, or women having to deal with rape culture and increasingly brazen misogyny, or Republicans continually pushing the limits of what human rights we can get away with denying LGBTQ people, but it's still something that bugs me and I just had to get it out.
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I was born with the gift of laughter and a sense the world is mad.