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RE: I need some good first date questions
September 29, 2017 at 5:06 pm
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Just ask him about himself and his interests and pay attention whether he'll come back and show genuine interest in you or just blather on about himself. That's a double win because guys love it if you show interest in them, but it tells you some of the most important things you need to know about him, whether he is a balanced and empathetic enough individual so that you can have a good place in his life.
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RE: I need some good first date questions
September 29, 2017 at 5:27 pm
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There's always risks with accidentally finding a serial killer or something.
I've always been more than willing to take that risk. I can't seem to get any dates. I've never been on any date ever.
I've also been on OKCupid for years. And I'll be 30 next year. I'm one of the undateables it seems.
I think I'm ok looking, I'm not stupid, I think I'm nice.... I think I can come across as confident. I guess I'm just weird and socially awkward. I just would have never guessed that that mattered so much that I've known many guys who are ugly, stupid and completely nasty racist assholes and... often less confident than me too... even shy when they're not being an asshole... they can get a girlfriend just fine.
It's a mystery Tres. If you're struggling to get a date I have no idea why and I have no idea why I struggle either. Life is weird. It's just a pity for me that it isn't my kind of weird.
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RE: I need some good first date questions
September 29, 2017 at 5:28 pm
(September 29, 2017 at 5:27 pm)Hammy Wrote: There's always risks with accidentally finding a serial killer or something.
I've always been more than willing to take that risk. I can't seem to get any dates. I've never been on any date ever.
I've also been on OKCupid for years. And I'll be 30 next year. I'm one of the undateables it seems.
I think I'm ok looking, I'm not stupid, I think I'm nice.... I think I can come across as confident. I guess I'm just weird and socially awkward. I just would have never guessed that that mattered so much that I've known many guys who are ugly, stupid and completely nasty racist assholes and... often less confident than me too... even shy when they're not being an asshole... they can get a girlfriend just fine.
It's a mystery Tres. If you're struggling to get a date I have no idea why and I have no idea why I struggle either. Life is weird. It's just a pity for me that it isn't my kind of weird.
Are you sexually attracted to guys or girls or both?
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RE: I need some good first date questions
September 29, 2017 at 5:29 pm
(September 29, 2017 at 5:28 pm)Lutrinae Wrote: (September 29, 2017 at 5:27 pm)Hammy Wrote: There's always risks with accidentally finding a serial killer or something.
I've always been more than willing to take that risk. I can't seem to get any dates. I've never been on any date ever.
I've also been on OKCupid for years. And I'll be 30 next year. I'm one of the undateables it seems.
I think I'm ok looking, I'm not stupid, I think I'm nice.... I think I can come across as confident. I guess I'm just weird and socially awkward. I just would have never guessed that that mattered so much that I've known many guys who are ugly, stupid and completely nasty racist assholes and... often less confident than me too... even shy when they're not being an asshole... they can get a girlfriend just fine.
It's a mystery Tres. If you're struggling to get a date I have no idea why and I have no idea why I struggle either. Life is weird. It's just a pity for me that it isn't my kind of weird.
Are you sexually attracted to guys or girls or both?
Girls only unfortunately.
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RE: I need some good first date questions
September 29, 2017 at 5:30 pm
(September 29, 2017 at 5:29 pm)Hammy Wrote: Girls only unfortunately.
And I was beginning to form a relationship with you whereby I wanted to stalk you in order to get to know you better.
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RE: I need some good first date questions
September 29, 2017 at 5:36 pm
(September 29, 2017 at 5:30 pm)Lutrinae Wrote: (September 29, 2017 at 5:29 pm)Hammy Wrote: Girls only unfortunately.
And I was beginning to form a relationship with you whereby I wanted to stalk you in order to get to know you better.
We've known each other what... 2 years already off and on? Kitan? 
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RE: I need some good first date questions
September 29, 2017 at 5:38 pm
(September 29, 2017 at 5:36 pm)Hammy Wrote: We've known each other what... 2 years already off and on? Kitan?
Well, I have been here more than four years, and didn't you say you've been here longer?
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RE: I need some good first date questions
September 29, 2017 at 5:39 pm
(September 29, 2017 at 5:38 pm)Lutrinae Wrote: (September 29, 2017 at 5:36 pm)Hammy Wrote: We've known each other what... 2 years already off and on? Kitan?
Well, I have been here more than four years, and didn't you say you've been here longer?
Yeah. But I left for years. I came back like 2015. We've only really known each other since then.
Why did you ask me what my previous usernames were today? And what my sexuality is?
Didn't you already know that stuff?
Hell, haven't you already seen photos of me?
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RE: I need some good first date questions
September 29, 2017 at 5:39 pm
(September 29, 2017 at 5:38 pm)Lutrinae Wrote: (September 29, 2017 at 5:36 pm)Hammy Wrote: We've known each other what... 2 years already off and on? Kitan?
Well, I have been here more than four years, and didn't you say you've been here longer?
We'd have to ask Tibs, but I think he came with the forum software.
The fool hath said in his heart, There is a God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
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RE: I need some good first date questions
September 29, 2017 at 5:40 pm
(September 29, 2017 at 5:39 pm)Hammy Wrote: Hell, haven't you already seen photos of me?
Not that I know. I'm horrible at stalking.
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