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December 19, 2017 at 3:46 pm
I also have a lot of sympathy for people who are lonely or want a spouse and don't have one. Zero judgement there, though I still disagree with the act itself.
But if my husband, for example, was looking at porn I would be absolutely crushed and furious. I'm always here/available and I never turn down sex which we have plenty of. And if for whatever reason I was absent for a while, he has plenty of naked pics/videos of me. Pretty sure I'd be broken up about it if he chose other women instead.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
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December 19, 2017 at 4:16 pm
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(December 19, 2017 at 3:46 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: ... he has plenty of naked pics/videos of me.
You kids nowdays have to film everything, doncha. Just don't get your camcorder stolen in Europe or you'll be "Casalinga Americana"
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December 19, 2017 at 4:25 pm
Camcorder? More like password protected flash drive, if you have kids in the house. Or so I hear...
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December 19, 2017 at 6:27 pm
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RE: Porn, porn and more porn!
December 19, 2017 at 6:27 pm
(December 19, 2017 at 3:46 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: But if my husband, for example, was looking at porn I would be absolutely crushed and furious. I'm always here/available and I never turn down sex which we have plenty of. And if for whatever reason I was absent for a while, he has plenty of naked pics/videos of me. Pretty sure I'd be broken up about it if he chose other women instead.
That's a pretty tough standard you've set. You're a straight lass and seem to have the hots for Megan Fox. What chance does a hetero guy have?
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RE: Porn, porn and more porn!
December 19, 2017 at 6:41 pm
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I think in general all the animal instincts are covered by religious tenets. The 7 sins are basically a list of motivated animal behaviors that, if they get out of control, become unproductive.
Sex is fine. Get married, make babies, God approves. Unproductive sex in any form is a waste of time and energy.
Eating is fine. Eating far too much is unhealthy and inefficient of human resources, and is therefore proscribed against.
Of course, this all depends on the goal of maximizing efficiency and productivity, and not that of maximizing pleasure.
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RE: Porn, porn and more porn!
December 19, 2017 at 6:52 pm
(December 19, 2017 at 6:27 pm)wallym Wrote: (December 19, 2017 at 3:46 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: But if my husband, for example, was looking at porn I would be absolutely crushed and furious. I'm always here/available and I never turn down sex which we have plenty of. And if for whatever reason I was absent for a while, he has plenty of naked pics/videos of me. Pretty sure I'd be broken up about it if he chose other women instead.
That's a pretty tough standard you've set. You're a straight lass and seem to have the hots for Megan Fox. What chance does a hetero guy have?
Having sex with your wife rather than masturbating to porn doesn't seem like that much to ask. I'd feel pretty shitty if he'd rather do that than have sex with me.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
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RE: Porn, porn and more porn!
December 19, 2017 at 7:19 pm
(December 19, 2017 at 6:52 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: (December 19, 2017 at 6:27 pm)wallym Wrote: That's a pretty tough standard you've set. You're a straight lass and seem to have the hots for Megan Fox. What chance does a hetero guy have?
Having sex with your wife rather than masturbating to porn doesn't seem like that much to ask. I'd feel pretty shitty if he'd rather do that than have sex with me.
Are they mutually exclusive? Would you let him watch porn while having sex?
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December 19, 2017 at 7:26 pm
It's not a matter of "letting him" or not. He has the same beliefs as myself and even if I were to suggest something like that (which I wouldn't) he'd say no.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
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RE: Porn, porn and more porn!
December 19, 2017 at 7:37 pm
Porn is boring anyway. I'd rather watch Sienfeld reruns.
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