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Disappointing my family
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Disappointing my family
My family is moderate christian. They are still very attached to Christianity. They will be disappointed when I'll come out as an atheist. Sometimes I wonder if they're sure I'm christian and/or fear that I'll become one.
"By simple common sense I don't believe in God, in none"

Charlie Chaplin
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RE: Disappointing my family
Why disappoint them...?
Can't you pretend until you're ready to leave home ...then tell them slowly...
No God, No fear.
Know God, Know fear.
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RE: Disappointing my family
(December 23, 2017 at 6:55 am)ignoramus Wrote: Why disappoint them...?
Can't you pretend until you're ready to leave home ...then tell them slowly...

That's exactly what I wanna do, I'm still sure they'll be disappointed.
"By simple common sense I don't believe in God, in none"

Charlie Chaplin
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RE: Disappointing my family
Well , I have 2 friends that are atheists and their parents know about what they think . I don't think they are disapointed.
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RE: Disappointing my family
They'll live ...They won't disown you will they? They're not that Jesus crazy are they?
No God, No fear.
Know God, Know fear.
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RE: Disappointing my family
Not much of a family if they're going to be disappointed in you for your viewpoint. 

Boru
‘But it does me no injury for my neighbour to say there are twenty gods or no gods. It neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg.’ - Thomas Jefferson
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RE: Disappointing my family
(December 23, 2017 at 7:00 am)ignoramus Wrote: They'll live ...They won't disown you will they? They're not that Jesus crazy are they?

No, they're not. It's just that I'm sick of pretending that I like their fairytales. The pretending was kind of funny and exciting at first, but now it's getting repetitive. I will leave home soon, but untill then I'll have to endure. I made this post so that I can talk to someone about this, to stop getting bored. Don't get me wrong, advice is still welcome.
"By simple common sense I don't believe in God, in none"

Charlie Chaplin
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RE: Disappointing my family
Put on "The Life of Brian" on the communal tv on Christmas day.
That'll give them a hint... But just a hint.
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RE: Disappointing my family
(December 23, 2017 at 5:57 am)Die Atheistin Wrote: My family is moderate christian. They are still very attached to Christianity. They will be disappointed when I'll come out as an atheist. Sometimes I wonder if they're sure I'm christian and/or fear that I'll become one.

Disappointing your parents is part of growing up. They'll get over it.
I don't have an anger problem, I have an idiot problem.
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RE: Disappointing my family
Any parent who has a normal teen, is already used to disappointments. It's no biggie... after all, children are often disappointed by the adults around them while growing up!
Quote:To know yet to think that one does not know is best; Not to know yet to think that one knows will lead to difficulty.
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