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gay adoption
November 17, 2010 at 9:56 pm
(This post was last modified: November 17, 2010 at 9:58 pm by joshgold17.)
reason why you voted for or against if you want
btw im not going to make every thread or post about me being gay my intro thread got out of hand about me being gay.
i will hardly make any gay threads after this.
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RE: gay adoption
November 17, 2010 at 10:03 pm
I voted for because there wasn't a "It depends on the parenting skills of the adoptive parents" button. I think anyone who is capable and loving enough to raise a child should be able to take in children who don't have families. I don't give a shit about a person's sexual orientation as long as they aren't a rapist, into bestiality (which I view as rape) or a pedophile.
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RE: gay adoption
November 17, 2010 at 11:21 pm
Voted for. If sexual orientation (and by this I'm referring to heterosexual/homosexual/bisexual/asexual orientations, not the profound oddities that have already been mentioned) is the only potential "issue", then there really isn't, or rather shouldn't, be an issue at all.
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RE: gay adoption
November 18, 2010 at 12:41 am
The only possible valid objection to it happening would be in terms of harm to the child, and while it is known that the Children of gay parents can be bullied and tormented for that fact, it's not the fault of the parents but a nasty streak in society and since the harassment is not the fault of the parents to reduce their freedoms by preventing them from having children is immoral.
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RE: gay adoption
November 18, 2010 at 1:17 am
(This post was last modified: November 18, 2010 at 2:01 am by ib.me.ub.)
Against.
In terms of what is good for the child, having gay parents, both being male, or both being female, I don't beleive it would be good for the childs psychology. If I put myself in the childs shoes for just one moment, I would not like to have gay parents. Let alone the ridicule the child would receive at school etc, I also beleive they could have an adverse psychological reaction.
So, thinking of the child (what having children is all about) and putting the other two individuals aside, I am against.
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RE: gay adoption
November 18, 2010 at 1:30 am
A good parent is a good parent - sexual orientation has nothing to do with being a good person, so as good parent is a subset of being a good person, then a parent's goodness is independent of their sexual orientation.