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This WOULD be a deal breaker for me in terms of pursuing a romantic relationship
66.67%
20 66.67%
This would NOT be a deal breaker for me in terms of pursuing a romantic relationship
33.33%
10 33.33%
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Question for the heterosexual men of AF
#11
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF
(March 21, 2018 at 10:19 pm)chimp3 Wrote: The anatomical features would not bother me. If the person has an unhealthy preoccupation with the drama of the sex change it would bother me. I am not comfortable with pretense.

Could you give an example of such a drama? I'm not sure what you mean.

(March 21, 2018 at 10:02 pm)c172 Wrote: I didn't know how to vote based on your wording (my problem more than yours, I'm sure). But I don't care if said woman started out as a man, as long as all of the woman parts are there and none of the man parts are there.

Lady parts are fun.
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#12
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF
For those asking, yes, the reassignment surgery would have been completed and the penis, etc, would be gone.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly." 

-walsh
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#13
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF
OK, I got thrown off by "biologically male". To me, that term speaks to the present situation, not te former situation.

Now that we're clear, I voted "no".
"For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring." - Carl Sagan
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#14
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF
(March 21, 2018 at 10:42 pm)c172 Wrote: OK, I got thrown off by "biologically male". To me, that term speaks to the present situation, not te former situation.

Now that we're clear, I voted "no".

Yep! "Biologically male" means they were born male and have male DNA, though they may identify as female.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly." 

-walsh
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RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF
(March 21, 2018 at 10:25 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: For those asking, yes, the reassignment surgery would have been completed and the penis, etc, would be gone.

And I take it that the surgery would be convincing enough that the resulting vagina would look and feel like a cislady's vagina. The point is that their mind and body both fully naked appears to you to be that of a beautiful ciswoman... and then after already being attracted to all of them fully you suddenly discover their chromosones are XY and they had an operation to look and feel exactly like a ciswoman but they're actually a transwoman... and is being trans or cis relevant?

For me it's like if I had a roommate that replaced all my possessions with exact replicas and I didn't lose any feelings of nostalgia or sentimentality. It's like... so what? Lol. Even if I knew what had happened, why would it make a difference if it all seemed and felt the same?
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#16
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No way. It would be a deal breaker.
Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former.

Albert Einstein
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#17
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(March 21, 2018 at 10:53 pm)AFTT47 Wrote: No way. It would be a deal breaker.

The clear crystallized knee-jerk response of a phobic person.
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#18
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I like girls...and I've been presented with a beautiful girl?   It's hard to see what the problem would be.
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(March 21, 2018 at 10:59 pm)Khemikal Wrote: I like girls...and I've been presented with a beautiful girl?   It's hard to see what the problem would be.

You may have never expected me of all people to say this to you but.... you totally get this.
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#20
RE: Question for the heterosexual men of AF
Yes, it would be a deal breaker for me ...not sure why though.

Too many caveats ...eg: what if they're hairier than me? god forbid! lol!
What if they can't cook? Nah, fuck that!!! lol
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