Question for the heterosexual men of AF

[Catholic_Lady]

I think I remember where this "beef" if you will between Hammy and Cap'n first started but I probably shouldn't dredge it up.

The fallacy thread?

[The Industrial Atheist]

Are we talking about ghost dicks giving people the heebee-jeebees at this point?  Correct me if I'm wrong, but the OP Q explicitly states that they don't have a dick?

LOL Ghost Dicks! Wish I could double kudos that just because of how awesomely funny it is!

[The Grand Nudger]

I think CA and I have probably debated before as well. I've also totally agreed with him. People are multifaceted.

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Are we talking about ghost dicks giving people the heebee-jeebees at this point?  Correct me if I'm wrong, but the OP Q explicitly states that they don't have a dick?

I don't know if you've noticed, but these things evolve. Also, people aren't talking about ghost dicks. They're talking about a vagina that's made out of dick tissue. Frankly, I wish transsexual people had a better option, but this is the reality. Let's not pretend it isn't.

Fair enough..I offered a stronger formulation earlier to try and maintain the isolation the op q attempts.  If a sex change were genetic therapy or a stem cell procedure.  That they did have a vagina, and it was their own vagina, made out of "vagina tissue".

Cant remember who it was, but somebody offered another. A transference of consciousness to a female body. The op q asks us...on the basis of their having been trans alone, it's not asking us about our bodily preferences - which we all have ad I don;t think anyone can really be faulted for having.

[The Industrial Atheist]

I think I remember where this "beef" if you will between Hammy and Cap'n first started but I probably shouldn't dredge it up.

The fallacy thread?

Unless I got Capn mixed up with someone else, a mutual friend of ours (who I think is really sweet) had a thread about a fairly minor issue at her office. Capn I think made kind of a mildly dismissive comment like " I wouldn't work in an office if I didn't like it, I control my life etc. " and that's when Hammy and Capn started getting into it.

This was some time ago but that's the first that I remember them being antagonistic. Unless that wasn't Cap'n. But I think it was.

[J a c k]

The fallacy thread?

Unless I got Capn mixed up with someone else, a mutual friend of ours (who I think is really sweet) had a thread about a fairly minor issue at her office. Capn I think made kind of a mildly dismissive comment like " I wouldn't work in an office if I didn't like it, I control my life etc. " and that's when Hammy and Capn started getting into it.

This was some time ago but that's the first that I remember them being antagonistic. Unless that wasn't Cap'n. But I think it was.

That was him. Capn. He was being arrogant in his “My lifestyle is better than yours” style.

[The Industrial Atheist]

Unless I got Capn mixed up with someone else, a mutual friend of ours (who I think is really sweet) had a thread about a fairly minor issue at her office. Capn I think made kind of a mildly dismissive comment like " I wouldn't work in an office if I didn't like it, I control my life etc. " and that's when Hammy and Capn started getting into it.

This was some time ago but that's the first that I remember them being antagonistic. Unless that wasn't Cap'n. But I think it was.

That was him. Capn. He was being arrogant in his “My lifestyle is better than yours” style.

Yeah. I remember it because i wish I had spoken up. Not necessarily in an aggressive way.

[Catholic_Lady]

Hmm, I don't remember that thread.

[Whateverist]

More thoughts about the whole date a transwoman question.

In general, I gravitate toward men who don't behave in stereotypically 'masculine' ways and women who don't don't speak in an unnaturally high voice, wear make up or avoid being physically active.

So to the degree that a transwoman would likely be consciously behaving in a manner she sees as being feminine, I suppose we wouldn't hit it off anyhow. Not sure if that is always the case though.

[CapnAwesome]

That was him. Capn. He was being arrogant in his “My lifestyle is better than yours” style.

Yeah. I remember it because i wish I had spoken up. Not necessarily in an aggressive way.

Lol, that's not it though. He first got into it with me when i was dismissive of pointing out logical fallacies all the time. Which, for some reason or another, Hammy gets really emotional about, since he loves to call people out on them (mostly incorrectly) . Since then he all but stalks me on these forums, replying antagonistically and insultingly to pretty much everything I say. I never reply to him first, except maybe to when he does the logical fallacy thing.

It would be a hard sell to say my lifestyle isn't better than being an antisocial shut in with no friwnds. I know, because i used to be one.

The funny thing is he was actually laying off for a bit, then, just as I knew would happen, as soon as he got his autism diagnosis he used it as a licence to be a total prick. It's like the oldest internet addict stereotype in the world.

[Losty]

Are we talking about ghost dicks giving people the heebee-jeebees at this point?  Correct me if I'm wrong, but the OP Q explicitly states that they don't have a dick?

Ghost dick heebee-jeebees overiding the fact that we're attracted to and like a person might actually be an indicator that someone is transphobic.

It’s not a ghost dick though. I’m pretty sure they use the person’s actual penis to make the new vagina.

Ah Shell already said this.