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Social media and sexual harrasment
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RE: Social media and sexual harrasment
July 5, 2018 at 3:32 pm
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RE: Social media and sexual harrasment
July 5, 2018 at 3:39 pm
(July 5, 2018 at 3:22 pm)mh.brewer Wrote:
(July 5, 2018 at 9:11 am)The Industrial Atheist Wrote: I'll take being a bit shy and awkward over being some weirdo that gets overtly sexual with strangers and that seems to think that everyone wants to see his peen.

You can send me a picture of your peen, ya know, kind of like a test case, and then I'll get back to you.

Ahahaha LOL! I think I'll pass on that one! If I were going to share such a picture it would be with someone of the feminine persuasion. I definitely would not lol.
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RE: Social media and sexual harrasment
July 5, 2018 at 3:41 pm
(July 5, 2018 at 3:22 pm)mh.brewer Wrote:
(July 5, 2018 at 9:11 am)The Industrial Atheist Wrote: I'll take being a bit shy and awkward over being some weirdo that gets overtly sexual with strangers and that seems to think that everyone wants to see his peen.

You can send me a picture of your peen, ya know, kind of like a test case, and then I'll get back to you.

Boob pics are better.

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RE: Social media and sexual harrasment
July 5, 2018 at 4:28 pm
(July 5, 2018 at 3:39 pm)The Industrial Atheist Wrote:
(July 5, 2018 at 3:22 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: You can send me a picture of your peen, ya know, kind of like a test case, and then I'll get back to you.

Ahahaha LOL! I think I'll pass on that one! If I were going to share such a picture it would be with someone of the feminine persuasion. I definitely would not lol.

OK, look, I'll show it to my wife. You'll get a fare and honest reaction to your manliness.
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RE: Social media and sexual harrasment
July 5, 2018 at 4:43 pm
(July 5, 2018 at 4:28 pm)mh.brewer Wrote:
(July 5, 2018 at 3:39 pm)The Industrial Atheist Wrote: Ahahaha LOL! I think I'll pass on that one! If I were going to share such a picture it would be with someone of the feminine persuasion. I definitely would not lol.

OK, look, I'll show it to my wife. You'll get a fare and honest reaction to your manliness.

My experience with dicks is that they're better in hand than in pictures...

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RE: Social media and sexual harrasment
July 5, 2018 at 4:47 pm
(July 5, 2018 at 4:43 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote:
(July 5, 2018 at 4:28 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: OK, look, I'll show it to my wife. You'll get a fare and honest reaction to your manliness.

My experience with dicks is that they're better in hand than in pictures...

😇

Fine. I'll make a clay model of his junk in the spirit of complete fairness. 

TIA, please manscape before, I ain't doin pubes.
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RE: Social media and sexual harrasment
July 5, 2018 at 5:53 pm
I feel I should be vague about this so I will be.  But a girl in my work was being messaged on facebook with creepy as fuck messages by a guy we both sort of know .  She wanted confirmation from me as to if the messages were creepy as fuck and they definitely are.  

I advised her to tell some other people about it because the guy is trying to come across as if these messages are all fine and he's just being a friend to her. 

She was trying to convince herself and me that that's what he might be doing so I said if that's the case she'd be fine with talking to him about these messages in front of all our friends as part of a standard convo, but I know she isn't because she knows he'd be humiliated because these messages are creepy and embarrassing. 

I was dying to tell other people in our social circle myself but she already swore me to secrecy.  We just laugh about this thing now, I don't think the guy is a serious threat, just a creepy opportunist. 

A lot of this sexual harassment in general on social media is very predictable though.  Even if the person is harassing someone they know, the act of harassing someone feels more of a departure from a personal experience and it can be done very spontaneously.


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RE: Social media and sexual harrasment
July 5, 2018 at 6:37 pm
(July 5, 2018 at 4:47 pm)mh.brewer Wrote:
(July 5, 2018 at 4:43 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: My experience with dicks is that they're better in hand than in pictures...

😇

Fine. I'll make a clay model of his junk in the spirit of complete fairness. 

TIA, please manscape before, I ain't doin pubes.

This screen capture from pornhub should do nicely...did I say that out loud? damn.
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RE: Social media and sexual harrasment
July 5, 2018 at 8:05 pm
(July 5, 2018 at 5:53 pm)paulpablo Wrote: I feel I should be vague about this so I will be.  But a girl in my work was being messaged on facebook with creepy as fuck messages by a guy we both sort of know .  She wanted confirmation from me as to if the messages were creepy as fuck and they definitely are.  

I advised her to tell some other people about it because the guy is trying to come across as if these messages are all fine and he's just being a friend to her. 

She was trying to convince herself and me that that's what he might be doing so I said if that's the case she'd be fine with talking to him about these messages in front of all our friends as part of a standard convo, but I know she isn't because she knows he'd be humiliated because these messages are creepy and embarrassing. 

I was dying to tell other people in our social circle myself but she already swore me to secrecy.  We just laugh about this thing now, I don't think the guy is a serious threat, just a creepy opportunist. 

A lot of this sexual harassment in general on social media is very predictable though.  Even if the person is harassing someone they know, the act of harassing someone feels more of a departure from a personal experience and it can be done very spontaneously.

Why didn't she block him?
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RE: Social media and sexual harrasment
July 5, 2018 at 8:25 pm
(July 4, 2018 at 9:19 pm)ignoramus Wrote:
(July 4, 2018 at 5:11 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: I've received unsolicited dick pics as well as had some highly inappropriate requests and suggestions.

I block the individuals pretty quickly.

Send me your mustang or I'll continue to post more ugly dick pics like this one!
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