How would you react to finding out you were making out with a transsexual?

[Shell B]

Whatever, smoking pot needs to be excused as much as being transsexual needs to be excused. Which is to say, neither needs and excuse.

[onlinebiker]

Bait and switch is an asshole move - in all forms.

[The Grand Nudger]

Who baited what.  Mr Handy gets handy because he likes to touch pretty things.  She and/or He was a pretty thing that Mr Handy wanted to grab.  Nobody made him do it, other than himself, and he clearly wanted to get grabby or he wouldn;t be Mr. Handy.

Taboo......stigma........insecurity.

[onlinebiker]

Who baited what.  Mr Handy gets handy because he likes to touch pretty things.  She and/or He was a pretty thing that Mr Handy wanted to grab.  Nobody made him do it, other than himself, and he clearly wanted to get grabby or he wouldn;t be Mr. Handy.

Taboo......stigma........insecurity.

If somebody wants a guy that looks like a girl -I see no problem with that.

However - the OP stated the guy said he wanted to do something - that the TS could not perform due to a plumbing incompatability.

At that point - the TS needs to inform the guy that it wasnt possible. No harm no foul..

Continuing on without informing is lying about what' s going on.

That' s bait and switch - decieving - and offering something other than what the buyer is looking for.

[The Grand Nudger]

I wasn't aware that the OP was a prostitute marketing "feminine services".

The only thing the OP was "selling" was being grabbable, which, by reference to the story, she provided in spades. Nobody got raped, nobody got molested, nobody got "violated"....nobody got bait and switched. WTF...?

I mean, shit, maybe somebody (or two people, lol) got disappointed...but that's as far as this can go.

[Angrboda]

It's just not possible that Yonadav is this kind of transsexual where living in your acquired gender is fundamental to who you are as a person at its very core. Because if his gender identity is male and he is now living with a female body then why transition in the first place? But if he claims his gender identity was female then why is he using a male pronoun and has started living as a man again.

Statements like this just make you out to be buttfuckingly ignorant and every bit the poseur that Yonadev claims you are.

[The Grand Nudger]

Not really, Yon offered a common batshit parody of transgender idenitity meant explicitly to belittle and demean and erase the idea.   I'm legitimately amazed that people haven't realized that he's a commited (and..granted..decent) troll, by this point.  

He's a man....who was born a man, who identifies as woman, who wanted to be a man, that now lives as a man.  Work it out. Yons as trans as I am a lesbian.

The whole point of this silly fucking rundown was to troll the shit out of "libtards" who wouldn't call him on his shit.

[Little lunch]

I don't like it when mummy and daddy argue with each other.

[I_am_not_mafia]

He's a man....who was born a man, who identifies as woman, who wanted to be a man, that now lives as a man.  Work it out.  Yons as trans as I am a lesbian.  

Probably not even that. By the sounds of it the body map in his brain has that of a woman's body but the rest of his brain is male.

That's not being a double transsexual. That concept is ludicrous. It's more like being a half transsexual, or a cisgendered man with body dysmorphia. Yet here he is claiming to be an expert on transsexuals, passing judgement on other people's lives that he himself is not able to live and making incredibly harmful comments.

Statements like this just make you out to be buttfuckingly ignorant and every bit the poseur that Yonadev claims you are.

Yonadav is the one who is showing buttfucking ignorance of what it means to be transsexual even though he claims to be one, which is why I am calling him out on it. He is toxic and needs dealing with.

[Shell B]

Jesus, is cisplaining a term, because I’m coining it. Do we really need to decide what labels Yon can use? We can disagree with him all day long without dissecting his sexual and gender self-identity. This is making me squeamish. I don’t want to upset anyone, but it’s coming off as bullying.