This year I hosted Christmas breakfast for everyone in my family at my house. It was my first time hosting and it all went very well.
I built a large 8 ft long dining room table for everyone to sit around, cooked a large breakfast having everything all done by 10:00 am when people began arriving.
We all sat down to eat and my mother asked who wanted to say grace. I piped up and said "I'll do it."
Most everyone bowed their heads. I didn't, nor did I ask anyone to bow. I simply said "I am thankful for those of us who could be here and thankful for those who couldn't make it. I want to wish everyone well and ...."
Then my brother says "And who are we giving our thanks to ?"
I replied "To everyone who is actually here. Amen"
Breakfast was good and grace is something we only say once or twice a year. People in my family seem to do it out of habit more than anything else. I take the opportunity to say it when I can to keep the religious stuff out of it. If they want to say something inside their own minds, that's up to them.
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all
I built a large 8 ft long dining room table for everyone to sit around, cooked a large breakfast having everything all done by 10:00 am when people began arriving.
We all sat down to eat and my mother asked who wanted to say grace. I piped up and said "I'll do it."
Most everyone bowed their heads. I didn't, nor did I ask anyone to bow. I simply said "I am thankful for those of us who could be here and thankful for those who couldn't make it. I want to wish everyone well and ...."
Then my brother says "And who are we giving our thanks to ?"
I replied "To everyone who is actually here. Amen"
Breakfast was good and grace is something we only say once or twice a year. People in my family seem to do it out of habit more than anything else. I take the opportunity to say it when I can to keep the religious stuff out of it. If they want to say something inside their own minds, that's up to them.
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to all
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