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RE: If life is temporary, why is finding a date so HARD?
October 16, 2023 at 2:40 am
Didn't have the energy to go through OP or the thread.
So I'll just note that I've always found it weird that people live how they do (in my opinion very conservatively yet also aggressively) given their impending doom.
Not sure if that relates much to the OP, but human behaviour confuses me often.
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RE: If life is temporary, why is finding a date so HARD?
October 16, 2023 at 3:23 am
(October 16, 2023 at 2:40 am)FrustratedFool Wrote: Didn't have the energy to go through OP or the thread.
So I'll just note that I've always found it weird that people live how they do (in my opinion very conservatively yet also aggressively) given their impending doom.
Not sure if that relates much to the OP, but human behaviour confuses me often.
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RE: If life is temporary, why is finding a date so HARD?
October 16, 2023 at 4:03 am
(October 16, 2023 at 3:23 am)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: (October 16, 2023 at 2:40 am)FrustratedFool Wrote: Didn't have the energy to go through OP or the thread.
So I'll just note that I've always found it weird that people live how they do (in my opinion very conservatively yet also aggressively) given their impending doom.
Not sure if that relates much to the OP, but human behaviour confuses me often.
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Right, I agree. People should be treating life like a 24/7 playground. I don't even see why sleep is necessary, in this case. So what if living like that makes us go extinct sooner? I mean really, who gives a shit? We are going to go extinct anyway, at some point. Why delay the inevitable? Might as well have as much fun as we can before we leave. It's like most people are trying to artificially extend the lifespan of humanity, with their behavior, thinking that if they do this, humanity will be around forever?
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RE: If life is temporary, why is finding a date so HARD?
October 16, 2023 at 8:31 am
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So boring. Want to find a girl, go where there are girls. That easy. You can be a toxic piece of shit, won't matter. College is like 2-1, or just take up yoga for fucks sake.
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RE: If life is temporary, why is finding a date so HARD?
October 16, 2023 at 8:34 am
(October 16, 2023 at 8:31 am)The Grand Nudger Wrote: So boring. Want to find a girl, go where there are girls. That easy. You can be a toxic piece of shit, won't matter. College is like 2-1, or just take up yoga for fucks sake.
You're completely wrong but that's to be expected of you at this point.
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RE: If life is temporary, why is finding a date so HARD?
October 16, 2023 at 8:41 am
Ah, but I have no trouble getting laid.
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RE: If life is temporary, why is finding a date so HARD?
October 16, 2023 at 8:51 am
(October 16, 2023 at 8:41 am)The Grand Nudger Wrote: Ah, but I have no trouble getting laid.
Neither do I, I just don't get with females.
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RE: If life is temporary, why is finding a date so HARD?
October 16, 2023 at 8:52 am
You need to work harder to keep your sad sack story straight from page to page Ahri.
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RE: If life is temporary, why is finding a date so HARD?
October 16, 2023 at 9:06 am
(October 16, 2023 at 8:52 am)The Grand Nudger Wrote: You need to work harder to keep your sad sack story straight from page to page Ahri.
What's hard to understand about this? I get with guys, exclusively. Not my preference, but I still get laid.
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RE: If life is temporary, why is finding a date so HARD?
October 16, 2023 at 9:07 am
(October 14, 2023 at 11:53 pm)snow_wolf22 Wrote: I'm curious what ya'll think. I won't go into too much detail, but I'm curious. I'm not religious, so I would love to hear another persons opinion from someone that also isn't religious.
If life is temporary, and the human race as a whole is temporary (what I mean is, the sun eventually will go out, and extinct the human race), why would a dating partner be almost impossible to date? Don't you think women would be more generous? What's the purpose of natural selection in a temporary existence? Maybe this implies reincarnation, since life demands you give it your all and be the best of the best, then perhaps even if I don't in this life, then my next life I'll have a chance, or not that one, but eventually I'll have the good go around.
So maybe life always wants the best, life reincarnates us to get a chance. I don't believe in heaven or hell. I believe we either die permanently or we're reincarnated. But I feel like, as I stated above, that if women are as picky as they are, and hard to get, that life MUST be perpetual. I think nature is so intelligent, it not only gave us reason, it already "has" that reason, and it knows that life is unfair, so one day, we all will get fame. Those that have fame, will one day experience wanting that fame, and they'll never know they had it.
So then technically speaking, does it even matter at all not being able to find a date?
In a sense it feels like whether I'm loosing or winning, I'm always winning. But I always get a gentle reminder "dang this really sucks being single" or "dang this time around in this reincarnation of life is not a lucky one", because I watch other couples naturally getting it on, meanwhile in order for me to get there I have to put an amount of effort that surpasses those people that don't have to barely lift a finger or break a sweat to get what I have to work EXTREMELY hard to get.
To summarize.
If life is temporary, and given the above info I added to kinda support both sides of the argument, why would a women still, even still, be so HARD to date for some of us men? Given the fact that LIFE IS TEMPORARY. And let me put this into perspective. If you're running out of time for a task, you might get desperate and cut corners. When you think of how VAST the universe of existence is, and measure how little time we actually are alive for, there's practically no time "left" for the task of being alive, so why would a women even have the "time" to be selective and ONLY date a man that has maybe a nice jaw line, good muscles. What's the purpose? My focus is kinda here, by asking "What's the purpose"?
What if on the flip side, life "accidentally" made "life" demand natural selection be top priority. What if? Does that make sense. What if beauty was actually created on accident and it actually is a disease or something that we classify as normal, or something. I mean when you suffer so much rejection, your mind tends to wonder (like mine) in ALL directions.
I hope my post makes sense.
lol.
This is nothing but self pity on your part. When I was young, I was a klutz, a dork, pimple face with braces. I used to think "why don't girls like me?" The bottom line is nobody is obligated to be attracted to you, just like nobody was obligated to be attracted to me. But then I got older and wiser and now accept the problem wasn't them, the problem was me and how I felt about myself.
I did get rejected, lots. But I also dated and was once married. it was when I accepted myself first others saw who I was. Rection happens to all of us, and that is simply part of life.
"What if beauty was actually created on accident and it was actually a disease" You.
On top of being an extremely disgusting statement it is also extremely ignorant. This longwinded pile of garbage is really your own self loathing.
If you are secure with yourself first, it won't even matter if you are not dating at all.
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