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I need some advice!
#31
RE: I need some advice!
(February 25, 2009 at 6:19 am)Giff Wrote: if a man is interested then he would ask.

Not a wise rule of thumb. Many men lack the confidence to approach a girl,even if they're besotted. Most BOYS definitely do,at least at times. (to me anyone under 25 is a child)Angel

@Rock; If you like him,tell him. Most "normal" guys will be flattered that an attractive girl (judging from your photo) likes him.

What's your fear? Can you deal if it comes true? If you can, go for it! If not,move on.
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#32
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he's a dud :p I've dropped every single hint I can think of, tried talking to him, but he's like incapable of making any kind of conversation that goes beyond schoolwork. It's not that he's trying to ignore me or avoid talking to me, because sometimes he'll initiate it, he just never says anything! He gets totally nervous when I talk to him, trust me I can tell, its the same look I get when I talk to anyone! lol.
Cher

"I have no advice for anybody; except to, you know, be awake enough to see where you are at any given time, and how that is beautiful, and has poetry inside. Even places you hate" -Jeff Buckley
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#33
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Stop dropping hints and ask him out! I hate it when people expect guys to do the asking...
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#34
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(April 9, 2009 at 11:16 pm)Tiberius Wrote: Stop dropping hints and ask him out! I hate it when people expect guys to do the asking...

I agree. in the words of the great prophets:

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#35
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Men often should ask out a girl. It's what a man is suppose to do. But I don't think it would hurt to ask. So go for it "Rochthatpiano06"!
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#36
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whew, ok i did it. Of course, I took the extremely passive nonconfrontational way out and did it over fb in an email, that way if i get rejected its alot less embaressing. I just came right out and admitted the crush and asked him to hang out, I've tried the hanging out as friends thing first before and it just creates more confusion. I'd rather just have the person know I like them so I don't waste my time if the person doesnt have any interest :p I am now scared to check my fb email though :p
Cher

"I have no advice for anybody; except to, you know, be awake enough to see where you are at any given time, and how that is beautiful, and has poetry inside. Even places you hate" -Jeff Buckley
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#37
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(April 30, 2009 at 7:03 pm)Rockthatpiano06 Wrote: whew, ok i did it. Of course, I took the extremely passive nonconfrontational way out and did it over fb in an email, that way if i get rejected its alot less embaressing. I just came right out and admitted the crush and asked him to hang out, I've tried the hanging out as friends thing first before and it just creates more confusion. I'd rather just have the person know I like them so I don't waste my time if the person doesnt have any interest :p I am now scared to check my fb email though :p

Another cliff-hanger for us!
HuhA man is born to a virgin mother, lives, dies, comes alive again and then disappears into the clouds to become his Dad. How likely is that?
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#38
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he answered me but i have yet to open the email! helpp lol
aww he's kind of dating someone, story of my life!
Cher

"I have no advice for anybody; except to, you know, be awake enough to see where you are at any given time, and how that is beautiful, and has poetry inside. Even places you hate" -Jeff Buckley
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#39
RE: I need some advice!
(April 30, 2009 at 7:29 pm)Rockthatpiano06 Wrote: he answered me but i have yet to open the email! helpp lol
aww he's kind of dating someone, story of my life!


Shit that must sting
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#40
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haha, like i said story of my life! I'm so glad I just came out and said I liked him though, rather then pretending I just wanted to hang out with him because I'd be persuing somebody that wasnt even interested. The last time I was interested in someone that happened and it led to a very bad year of my life, so at least I avoided that. I'm mostly embaressed not upset, I should have known better and just kept my mouth shut. I don't really believe he's seeing someone else either, but whatever! lol.
Cher

"I have no advice for anybody; except to, you know, be awake enough to see where you are at any given time, and how that is beautiful, and has poetry inside. Even places you hate" -Jeff Buckley
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