Getting groped on the bus

[frankiej]

Nothing like a good grope in the morning to brighten the day.

[Autumnlicious]

Now, true to my cultural heritage, I truly detest when people I don't know touch me. So I slid as far as I could on my seat, making sure that I didn't need to have any contact with him. To my horror he just came inch by inch closer to me and it ended in him stroking my leg and trying to grab onto it.

I get weird about touch also.

By the way, what stopped you from getting up and walking away to another side of the bus? One can stand in most circumstances.

[Ace Otana]

I remember walking up town and behind a lovely lady. She gave me a lovely smile. Anyway we were both heading for the town centre, she was in front of me. Now there were a couple of guys leaning against the side of a van and when she walked passed, one of them gave her the creepiest look. No flirting or anything like that but a real creepy look, the sort of look that would come from a soon to be rapist sort of thing. I could tell she was a little freaked out, I don't blame her. Gave the guy a dirty look and remained behind the girl. I actually thought the guy was going to grab her or something. It was the look and the body language. A wanna-be rapist.

There are a lot of sickos out there.

I could never touch any girl if I thought it would make her feel uncomfortable. In fact, Katie who kept asking me to kiss her one night, had to floor me and kiss me instead of the other way round. I was too busy thinking about her and making sure she was comfortable.
My confidence level is somewhat higher now. There's no way I could even contemplate what some perverts would do.

Everyday I actually hope a random girl floors me and pins me down.

[Phaedra]

I'm sorry that happened, Kay. What a creep.

A few weeks ago I was at a show and the skeezer behind me kept rubbing against me. I initially thought that he was just gett pushed forward by the people behind him, but then he progressed to fondling my ass. Before I could turn around and slap him, the guys standing next to him told him to stop and pulled him away from me. Unfortunately this happens to me a lot at shows and bars It's disturbing, and I don't know why men see me as such a target.

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I remember walking up town and behind a lovely lady. She gave me a lovely smile. Anyway we were both heading for the town centre, she was in front of me. Now there were a couple of guys leaning against the side of a van and when she walked passed, one of them gave her the creepiest look. No flirting or anything like that but a real creepy look, the sort of look that would come from a soon to be rapist sort of thing. I could tell she was a little freaked out, I don't blame her. Gave the guy a dirty look and remained behind the girl. I actually thought the guy was going to grab her or something. It was the look and the body language. A wanna-be rapist.

There are a lot of sickos out there.

I could never touch any girl if I thought it would make her feel uncomfortable. In fact, Katie who kept asking me to kiss her one night, had to floor me and kiss me instead of the other way round. I was too busy thinking about her and making sure she was comfortable.
My confidence level is somewhat higher now. There's no way I could even contemplate what some perverts would do.

Everyday I actually hope a random girl floors me and pins me down.

That's very sweet of you. I wish more men were as respectful as you are.

[Kayenneh]

I wish a random lady would grope me.

Careful what you wish for. My bf got groped by a girl once, and he says his balls hurt every time he thinks about the incident. I reckon she was a bit drunk

By the way, what stopped you from getting up and walking away to another side of the bus? One can stand in most circumstances.

Oh, I do that when there's lot's of room. Old ladies tend to try and sit next to me when the bus is empty and that just pisses me off, so I (the big rebel I am) glare at them and go sit elsewhere. But today the bus was full, I had high heels on and didn't feel like standing and I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Which I obviously shouldn't have..

I don't know why men see me as such a target.

I know why I attract creeps. I have what me and my friends call a "customer service face", which pretty much means that I look kind, nice and trustworthy.

You on the other hand are beautiful, so unfortunately (indecent) men will always try to exploit that, I guess

Everyday I actually hope a random girl floors me and pins me down.

Oh Ace, if only I was single..

But seriously, you're quite the gentleman, aren't you?

[Ace Otana]

That's very sweet of you. I wish more men were as respectful as you are.

There's plenty of good guys, it's just you probably don't see them as much as you do with total arseholes.
I know way too many players here. Some good guys though.

Recently my sisters friend (Andy) touched her leg. She has no interest and she didn't give him any signals. She even made it clear to him she don't want him, still he touches. Why?
Just understand them.

Oh Ace, if only I was single..

But seriously, you're quite the gentleman, aren't you?

I'm not perfect, I have my faults. Trust me.
Thanks for the compliment though.

[Phaedra]

There's plenty of good guys, it's just you probably don't see them as much as you do with total arseholes.
I know way too many players here. Some good guys though.

You're right. Most of the men I encounter somehow manage to refrain from grabbing me. I've met very sweet guys at bars and have had fantastic, interesting conversations with them. They've even put me in a cab when I was too drunk to drive and didn't try to take me home or try anything.

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I know why I attract creeps. I have what me and my friends call a "customer service face", which pretty much means that I look kind, nice and trustworthy.

That's pretty lame. People think they can take advantage of you because you're sweet-looking. Sigh.

[Ace Otana]

I know why I attract creeps. I have what me and my friends call a "customer service face", which pretty much means that I look kind, nice and trustworthy.

You on the other hand are beautiful, so unfortunately (indecent) men will always try to exploit that, I guess

No. What attracts creeps is boobs, bum, legs and a vagina. They pay no attention to you, just what you have.
They care not for your beauty or personality. Just something to satisfy their dicks.

I'd like to go further and say they are blind to your looks and personality, because they think with their dicks.

[Phaedra]

No. What attracts creeps is boobs, bum, legs and a vagina. They pay no attention to you, just what you have.
They care not for your beauty or personality. Just something to satisfy their dicks.

I'd like to go further and say they are blind to your looks and personality, because they think with their dicks.

So they're equal-opportunity creeps? Figures.

[Rayaan]

Now, true to my cultural heritage, I truly detest when people I don't know touch me. So I slid as far as I could on my seat, making sure that I didn't need to have any contact with him. To my horror he just came inch by inch closer to me and it ended in him stroking my leg and trying to grab onto it. If it wasn't for my suspicion that he didn't have all wits about him, I would've punched him in the face. Fortunately an ice cold glare was enough to make him start in surprise, pull his hand away and leave. Two girls stepped off the bus at the same time as him the look he gave them gave me the chills. For a second I actually thought that he was about to follow them, but then he turned around and left in the opposite direction.

And would you have twisted him into a Mandelbrot fractal and put him in art gallery?

But it's good that you scared him away.
I don't understand how anyone could be so stupid that they would touch and grab a lady in a bus who they don't even know.