CIJS

I don't understand people who vent to me about their problems getting annoyed when I attempt to offer suggestions that will help their situation. I mean, yeah, venting is cathartic, but it doesn't address the underlying problem. And it's not like your current outlook and course of action is working. So, either change it up and try to fix it, or just shut up about it. My field 'o fucks has almost been completely harvested.

CIJS...
I miss you guys. Just wanted to say hey. I'll be back to my usual over-sharing self maybe next week.

CIJS

Happy birthday to my daughter. This will be the third birthday that I have been denied in celebrating with her. And it's a milestone birthday. Partly because ten years ago, the doctors told me she would eventually go into cardiac failure due to her heart condition and partly because she turns 21 today.

Mama misses you baby girl and one day, we will be a family again and will no longer be kept apart by a ruthless, psychopathic, narcissistic tyrant who just loves to hurt you and your mama.

I love you more than you will ever know and I miss you and think of you every day.

A message to a friend:

To be honest, I never understood why you had a crush on me: you are sweet, genuine, kind, intelligent, and on top of all of that, you are stunningly beautiful inside and out. Perhaps you prefer Spock over Kirk?  Regardless of the reason, I want to say that during my time at L&T, meeting you was probably the best thing that happened to me.  You taught me that there’s more to work than just doing a job, being professional, and then going home: if we want to grow as individuals and maximize results for our organization, then we’ve got to reach out to our fellow coworkers and establish meaningful connections with them.

On that note, I hope your endeavors in make-up artistry are going well.  When you described the color wheel to me and how that is used to do make-overs, I must say that I was impressed: you have an exceptional gift; everyone agrees that you are a remarkable make-up artist.  More importantly, every makeover you do gives people a sense of empowerment that you might not be fully aware of: any insecurities that your customers had prior to the makeover are replaced with the feeling that they are beautiful, and this beauty has the power to gravitate outward into their professional and personal lives and touch those people who are special to them.  Make up artistry is what makes you unique, so please never feel that you are beneath other professions.  In my eyes, I will always think of you as a leader among queens.  Please take care of yourself, and I wish you well on your path toward success, happiness, and fulfillment.

Hey, you know what happens when you try to have it both ways?

That's right, exactly what happened here -- you fall between two stools.

I hope you learnt a lesson out of it. I sure did.

(September 30, 2016 at 1:01 am)Mamacita Wrote: CIJS...
I miss you guys. Just wanted to say hey. I'll be back to my usual over-sharing self maybe next week.

I miss you too so much bestie

JBH: How does my sis only have 45 rep points? What the fuck is everyone playing at

CIJS, from the bottom of my heart, fuck you, Kenny Rogers!

Yeah, your stupid "Coward of the County" was on the radio when I started for work, and it's still in my head, goddammit! Run and hide, bitch. Run. And. Hide. I will cut your chicken-fried ass if we meet today.

(September 30, 2016 at 11:39 am)Crossless1 Wrote: CIJS, from the bottom of my heart, fuck you, Kenny Rogers!

Yeah, your stupid "Coward of the County" was on the radio when I started for work, and it's still in my head, goddammit! Run and hide, bitch. Run. And. Hide. I will cut your chicken-fried ass if we meet today.

On my first year of college, I got a music stuck in my head.... it was a great piece.... great indeed... Still is, of course.

So, after that, whenever I get some idiot song stuck in my head... and I notice it... I think of that other great piece of music and go back to being at peace.

Find your great song or melody... memorize it.... get it stuck in your head.... it's great music, so you won't mind that it's stuck.
And then... you know what to do.

Mine was this:

(September 30, 2016 at 11:56 am)pocaracas Wrote:

(September 30, 2016 at 11:39 am)Crossless1 Wrote: CIJS, from the bottom of my heart, fuck you, Kenny Rogers!

Yeah, your stupid "Coward of the County" was on the radio when I started for work, and it's still in my head, goddammit! Run and hide, bitch. Run. And. Hide. I will cut your chicken-fried ass if we meet today.

On my first year of college, I got a music stuck in my head.... it was a great piece.... great indeed... Still is, of course.

So, after that, whenever I get some idiot song stuck in my head... and I notice it... I think of that other great piece of music and go back to being at peace.

Find your great song or melody... memorize it.... get it stuck in your head.... it's great music, so you won't mind that it's stuck.
And then... you know what to do.

Mine was this:

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Here's mine:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AD1La6aUAng

CIJS...

This post is not about you. I know you think it is, but it isn't. It's about someone else entirely. Someone who thinks this post is about them, even though it isn't.

You know who you are. Now if you'll excuse me, I have an appointment to get my nails done by a manicurist who manicures everyone who does not manicure themselves.