Damn... my scale goes all the way up to 100.
Most women land in the 60~80 range.... your hypothetical 4/10 would land in the 40's... damn, that's not an option... I don't think I've ever seen any woman roughly my age that scores that low.... maybe my scale needs adjusting

So... why can't we have a 90 with intercourse every day?
What sort of woman is that that would refuse me 6 times out of 7?

She's a 9 and I'm a 3 and she only fucks me once a week.
That bitch is playing around on me!

Personally, physical beauty is far less important than personality, intelligence, compassion, and sexual compatibility.

I'd take the 4.

9's a show horse not a riding one.

Brian was so far off of what I considered 'fucking handsome' at the time it did not occur to me (for years) that I had fallen for him 'lock stock and barrel' despite evincing some extremely clear 'symptoms'. The man I was dating at the time picked up on it, realized it was spontaneous and wasn't something I sought out to happen, and was enough of a gentleman to not mention it too me, believing instead it was going to be something I would need to work out on my own. While he was correct, I don't think he realized that was going to be an endeavor that was going to take a decade.

Brian was always tall and thin, HIV made him very skinny indeed before he died. His appearance is of no consequence to me. it wasn't then (unwittingly to me) and it isn't to this day. Curiously, I do not and have not imagined 'sexy time' with Brian, despite my feelings for him. He's gone, he's been gone for more years than he was alive, and it's never been a 'thing' for me to think about him that way. I do recall (and treasure) memories of hugging him, helping him march in a gay rights/HIV parade, sharing a can of pop, and just spending time with him.

And watching him waste away . . .


. . . six years before we had the AIDS cocktail' to fight the disease.

(April 13, 2018 at 11:14 am)Cathooloo Wrote: Personally, physical beauty is far less important than personality, intelligence, compassion, and sexual compatibility.

I'd take the 4.

Yabut I said all other things being equal, so the 9 has the same personality etc as the 4. Sexual frequency is the only difference.

I think what he means is that physical appearance is of no importance to him. So might as well take the sex.

(April 13, 2018 at 9:41 pm)vorlon13 Wrote: Brian was so far off of what I considered 'fucking handsome' at the time it did not occur to me (for years) that I had fallen for him 'lock stock and barrel' despite evincing some extremely clear 'symptoms'.  The man I was dating at the time picked up on it, realized it was spontaneous and wasn't something I sought out to happen, and was enough of a gentleman to not mention it too me, believing instead it was going to be something I would need to work out on my own.  While he was correct, I don't think he realized that was going to be an endeavor that was going to take a decade.

Brian was always tall and thin, HIV made him very skinny indeed before he died.  His appearance is of no consequence to me. it wasn't then (unwittingly to me) and it isn't to this day.  Curiously, I do not and have not imagined 'sexy time' with Brian, despite my feelings for him.  He's gone, he's been gone for more years than he was alive, and it's never been a 'thing' for me to think about him that way.  I do recall (and treasure) memories of hugging him, helping him march in a gay rights/HIV parade, sharing a can of pop, and just spending time with him.  

And watching him waste away . . .


. . . six years before we had the AIDS cocktail' to fight the disease.

Its hard to watch someone you love die slowly, knowing all you can do is be a comfort.

And to lighten the mood here are some kittens.

It'd be difficult to want to have lots of sex with someone I'm not physically attracted to, so I'd rather have a '9' and do it once per week. I don't believe sex is like pizza, that any time you have it, it's good. lol It has to actually BE good.

For me, getting my junk into her junk is still so magical that she's automatically a 9 once I'm in there. And with regular activity the effect lingers.