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RE: NC Gov on the wrong side of history......
May 12, 2016 at 12:41 pm
I probably came off yesterday as having no sympathy or concern for transgender people. Nothing could be further from the truth, and I would favor having unisex restrooms where a person could enter and lock the door behind them. I think Gemini hit it on the head though, when she talked of being harassed while in the men's restrooms and said it is a common problem for transgenders. I feel certain that the fear of most people who oppose allowing physical men use the women's restrooms is harassment rather than rape. I'm sure that over the years there have been plenty of men in women's restrooms dressed as women and I've probably unknowingly shared restrooms with women. But the NC law would make it illegal just to be there, therefore discouraging men or women from entering for the purpose of harassment. Also, there is plenty of harassment in public restrooms as many, many gay men have been arrested for propositioning and lewd conduct with adults and children in restrooms. This law doesn't address that problem, but it does demonstrate the kinds of things men will do in public restrooms.
If we're concerned about the comfort and safety of transgenders, then why are we not concerned about it for straight people as well? It's not just a christian thing either. The first thing you guys want to do when someone disagrees with you is to call them a christian bigot.
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RE: NC Gov on the wrong side of history......
May 12, 2016 at 12:41 pm
(May 11, 2016 at 4:03 pm)Lek Wrote: (May 11, 2016 at 3:57 pm)Faith No More Wrote: What does it matter?
It matters because if a man thinks he is a woman, but has a penis, why can't he/she use the men's urinal to pee?
First off your genitals DO NOT define your sexual preference or sexual identity, the brain does.
Secondly, Gemini in an earlier post already said why, if she uses the women's bathroom, she gets harassed and with both bathrooms she has to fear the risk of being assaulted because of asshole bigots.
This is really fucking stupid. Gay men have always shared bathrooms with straight men. While assholes still condemn them there are not widespread demands that gays have a separate bathroom. Same with lesbians, they share restrooms with heterosexual women all the time. I have no doubt everyone here has been in a bathroom with someone gay at some point in their lives.
And again, the least of anyone's worries as far as risk of peeping or molestation or rape is going to be a transgendered. Especially in a high traffic public bathroom. Peeping and molestation and rape are far more likely to be committed by heterosexual men and far more likely NOT to happen in a bathroom, especially not a high traffic bathroom.
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RE: NC Gov on the wrong side of history......
May 12, 2016 at 12:44 pm
(This post was last modified: May 12, 2016 at 12:49 pm by Brian37.)
This harassment didn't happen in a bathroom. The sick fuck actually didn't touch her so no crime was committed but he did have priors and hadn't realized he had run into her before. He was asking very inappropriate questions about the underwear she was wearing, that is why she chased him out.
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May 12, 2016 at 1:19 pm
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(May 12, 2016 at 10:19 am)Divinity Wrote: You never gave this ONE IOTA of your attention that a man could dress up like a woman to walk in and peep on women using the bathroom in the past.
You are absolutely correct. It never occurred to me that any mentally-stable law-abiding person would use the bathroom of the opposite sex. I always assumed that if a man went into a women's bathroom he would be reported and escorted out. My guess is that most creeps and criminals would have made the same assumption. Social norms proscribed normative behavior and provided recourse when someone felt his or her privacy had been violated.
I can accept that cultural norms change. Many fears are irrational. At the same time I recognize that some people are immoral and criminal. Removing the stigma provides cover for such deviants. The situation is similar to calling people "Islamaphobes" for recognizing that terrorist attacks are overwhelmingly perpetrated by Muslim extremists. I may be more likely to be struck by lightning than blown up by a suicide bomber but I don't stand under flagpoles during storms. However, the stigma of being called a bigot for having a modicum of vigilance is now so strong that criminals will disguise themselves in Burkas because they know that people will intentionally look away and consciously ignore them.
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RE: NC Gov on the wrong side of history......
May 12, 2016 at 1:22 pm
(May 12, 2016 at 12:41 pm)Lek Wrote: lso, there is plenty of harassment in public restrooms as many, many gay men have been arrested for propositioning and lewd conduct with adults and children in restrooms. Including Senators.
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RE: NC Gov on the wrong side of history......
May 12, 2016 at 1:25 pm
(This post was last modified: May 12, 2016 at 1:26 pm by The Grand Nudger.)
Whose removing the stigma from sexual predators and how......? All of a sudden..because trans girls can go to the ladies room...nobodies gonna point and hiss at sexual predators? That's giving them cover?
WTF?
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May 12, 2016 at 3:27 pm
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(May 12, 2016 at 12:41 pm)Lek Wrote: It's not just a christian thing either. The first thing you guys want to do when someone disagrees with you is to call them a christian bigot.
It may not be exclusively a Christian thing, but which group in America is squealing the loudest? Do you listen to Christian talk radio? I do. Those bastards have never missed an opportunity to play the victims of cultural change, nor have they met an election year wedge issue they didn't like.
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RE: NC Gov on the wrong side of history......
May 12, 2016 at 3:45 pm
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I listen to AFR every day when I'm picking the girls up from school. Love that program, a real trendsetter for christian bigotry. I always know what to expect on the forums.
(I suspect that many of our posters lifted their talking points from precisely the same place as the host - it would be eery if they all had the -exact same- batshit thoughts independently....)
I am the Infantry. I am my country’s strength in war, her deterrent in peace. I am the heart of the fight… wherever, whenever. I carry America’s faith and honor against her enemies. I am the Queen of Battle. I am what my country expects me to be, the best trained Soldier in the world. In the race for victory, I am swift, determined, and courageous, armed with a fierce will to win. Never will I fail my country’s trust. Always I fight on…through the foe, to the objective, to triumph overall. If necessary, I will fight to my death. By my steadfast courage, I have won more than 200 years of freedom. I yield not to weakness, to hunger, to cowardice, to fatigue, to superior odds, For I am mentally tough, physically strong, and morally straight. I forsake not, my country, my mission, my comrades, my sacred duty. I am relentless. I am always there, now and forever. I AM THE INFANTRY! FOLLOW ME!
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RE: NC Gov on the wrong side of history......
May 12, 2016 at 3:48 pm
(May 12, 2016 at 3:45 pm)Rhythm Wrote: I listen to AFR every day when I'm picking the girls up from school. Love that program, a real trendsetter for christian bigotry. I always know what to expect on the forums.
(I supsect that many of our posters lifted their talking points from precisely the same place as the host - it would be eery if they all had the -exact same- batshit thoughts independently....)
Exactly. AFR is one of my cultural barometers.
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RE: NC Gov on the wrong side of history......
May 12, 2016 at 6:14 pm
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(May 12, 2016 at 3:27 pm)Crossless1 Wrote: (May 12, 2016 at 12:41 pm)Lek Wrote: It's not just a christian thing either. The first thing you guys want to do when someone disagrees with you is to call them a christian bigot.
It may not be exclusively a Christian thing, but which group in America is squealing the loudest? Do you listen to Christian talk radio? I do. Those bastards have never missed an opportunity to play the victims of cultural change, nor have they met an election year wedge issue they didn't like.
They never seem to rail against new slackerism inside their own movements though.
Newt Gingrich was castigated in the past for open and notorious adultery, something changed in the US Christer orbit, and now it's OK to support Trump even though he's an open and notorious adulterer too.
Why would God change his mind on something like adultery ??
Why won't Christian talk radio address the inner rot and growing cultural decay IN THEIR OWN MOVEMENT ???
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