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Dating / Married To Theist
April 4, 2019 at 6:15 pm
Hey guys! It's been awhile!
Recently I met an amazing woman from Honduras who I intend to marry soon. That isn't really what this topic is on though
About 10 or so years ago, I had much more of an aggressive stance against theism in general. Over time though, I've found no need to really put myself in a position of arguing against religious nonsense. Fortunately, while this girl is definitely a Christian and a believer, she isn't aggressive with it either. She's aware that I am an Atheist and really has no problem with it (which I was afraid might be an issue). The most religious thing I've done was a Christmas party with her which involved a midnight prayer. I just stood there quietly enjoyed some of that AMAZING Latino food lol.
I was wondering how many of you are currently dating or married to a theist and what your experiences have been?
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RE: Dating / Married To Theist
April 4, 2019 at 6:20 pm
If you don't see it as a problem and she doesn't see it as a problem, then it probably won't become a problem. Might wanna discuss the kids...if you plan to have any, though, lol.
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RE: Dating / Married To Theist
April 4, 2019 at 6:26 pm
What Gae said. I've dated theists in the past. Sometimes it was an issue, sometimes it wasn't. If your lady has no problem with your atheism, it probably won't become an issue.
Good luck, and save me some wedding cake.
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RE: Dating / Married To Theist
April 4, 2019 at 6:42 pm
(This post was last modified: April 4, 2019 at 6:43 pm by wolf39us.)
Neither of us see it as a problem. I'm actually perfectly willing to be fair about any children should that become a thing (we are working through the details on that bit). Gotta get through the whole immigration fun first lol
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RE: Dating / Married To Theist
April 4, 2019 at 7:11 pm
Figuring out what "fair" means is exactly the discussion to have.
I am the Infantry. I am my country’s strength in war, her deterrent in peace. I am the heart of the fight… wherever, whenever. I carry America’s faith and honor against her enemies. I am the Queen of Battle. I am what my country expects me to be, the best trained Soldier in the world. In the race for victory, I am swift, determined, and courageous, armed with a fierce will to win. Never will I fail my country’s trust. Always I fight on…through the foe, to the objective, to triumph overall. If necessary, I will fight to my death. By my steadfast courage, I have won more than 200 years of freedom. I yield not to weakness, to hunger, to cowardice, to fatigue, to superior odds, For I am mentally tough, physically strong, and morally straight. I forsake not, my country, my mission, my comrades, my sacred duty. I am relentless. I am always there, now and forever. I AM THE INFANTRY! FOLLOW ME!
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RE: Dating / Married To Theist
April 4, 2019 at 7:14 pm
(April 4, 2019 at 6:15 pm)wolf39us Wrote: Hey guys! It's been awhile!
Recently I met an amazing woman from Honduras who I intend to marry soon. That isn't really what this topic is on though
About 10 or so years ago, I had much more of an aggressive stance against theism in general. Over time though, I've found no need to really put myself in a position of arguing against religious nonsense. Fortunately, while this girl is definitely a Christian and a believer, she isn't aggressive with it either. She's aware that I am an Atheist and really has no problem with it (which I was afraid might be an issue). The most religious thing I've done was a Christmas party with her which involved a midnight prayer. I just stood there quietly enjoyed some of that AMAZING Latino food lol.
I was wondering how many of you are currently dating or married to a theist and what your experiences have been?
(April 4, 2019 at 7:11 pm)Gae Bolga Wrote: Figuring out what "fair" means is exactly the discussion to have.
Agreed!
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RE: Dating / Married To Theist
April 4, 2019 at 8:37 pm
Married to a cafeteria catholic. Even she laughs at the church/rituals but just can't give up the idea of heaven.
Being told you're delusional does not necessarily mean you're mental.
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RE: Dating / Married To Theist
April 5, 2019 at 12:38 am
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(April 4, 2019 at 8:37 pm)wyzas Wrote: Married to a cafeteria catholic. Even she laughs at the church/rituals but just can't give up the idea of heaven.
A cafeteria catholic you say? What's her opinion on...
Muffins?
It's amazing 'science' always seems to 'find' whatever it is funded for, and never the oppsite. Drich.
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RE: Dating / Married To Theist
April 5, 2019 at 7:22 am
(April 5, 2019 at 12:38 am)Succubus Wrote: (April 4, 2019 at 8:37 pm)wyzas Wrote: Married to a cafeteria catholic. Even she laughs at the church/rituals but just can't give up the idea of heaven.
A cafeteria catholic you say? What's her opinion on...
Muffins?
I'm not sure, I know she hates hers.
She does like Franks "Catholic Girls".
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RE: Dating / Married To Theist
April 5, 2019 at 7:28 am
Yeah, once she starts talking how god created world in six days it's bye bye erection.
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