[Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men

[Sal]

@WinterHold ,  get the fuck out of your bubble, and smell the coffee or whatever pastime has a flavor where you live.

Wife is probably a metaphor in this context too.  The only thing that you're going to get by stewing around in the described thoughts is mental illness.

99.9% agree. I know this personally, and have a long lived experience of this firsthand.

[Abaddon_ire]

It's the womans job to make her man happy? That is a repulsive ideology.

There many points you need to satisfy as a human to be happy, finding the right mate is one of them. But it's an accumulation of points.

That's stupid. The "points" were right at the outset. I could have no knowledge of any future "points" to be earned or lost, how could I?

My ex was compatible at the outset. But people change. So she became more religious and I became more atheist over time. We started from a position of not being particularly committed. Religion caused the problem. People like you. You really are clueless.

[arewethereyet]

Relationship advice from someone not in a relationship...reminds me of being forced to take a "Towards Marriage" class in high school that was taught by a priest.