do u think people think im lame for not having a gf?

[Rayaan]

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That is not to say that you shouldn't care what other people think about you at all, though.

[pineapplebunnybounce]

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That is not to say that you shouldn't care what other people think about you at all, though.

Often it is true for many people that they will only accept that others love them if they can see that they are worth loving. What other people think of you can put you down, but it usually isn't enough to lift you up if you already have a bad opinion of yourself. It's important to learn to live with yourself .

[Lemonvariable72]

Back on point relationships are not something to just fly into like so many people do, take your time relax and make sure you have your shit together because I know myself that many people are just in relationships that are unhappy because they are afraid.

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Is it that obvious?

For some yes, I was one of those people.

[shadowninjax]

I am almost 22 and still single and I pity those who end up in relationship too soon and realize they've done it wrong or too early.

Enjoy your life while you can. Before you have to think about kids or spouse.

Its true that you can still enjoy life after being in a relationship, but it requires you to be a grown up and intelligent planner.

The greatest people in the world were singles, who sacrificed their life for the greater good of humanity.

Now tell me, who's the looser now?

[Rayaan]

What other people think of you can put you down, but it usually isn't enough to lift you up if you already have a bad opinion of yourself.

True.

One thing is that a lot of people tend to judge us based on external or materialistic things, but they don't know our inner selves, or who we are at heart, which is the most important. They tend to form opinions of us based on external things like how we look, what clothes we wear, how many cars we have, how rich or poor we are, what educational degree we have, how many friends we have, what job we are doing, and so on and so forth.

I think that people who care about those things too much, they are more likely to be affected by the opinions of others. They sort of lost connection with their inner selves and that's why the voices and superficial judgements of other people drown out their own; they are not able to be honest with themselves. And correspondingly, their self-understanding starts to become more and more cloudy.

The greatest people in the world were singles, who sacrificed their life for the greater good of humanity.

I just didn't quite agree with that one, but I agree with everything else you said.

I am 27 and single and I enjoy it, too.

[Fruity]

In order for someone to want to be a part of your life, she will need to see that you have a life even without her in it yet. No woman in her right mind will want to enter someone's life to give it meaning or purpose where there was none to begin with. It's too much responsibility. You need to enjoy yourself, enjoy life, get busy, and while you're at it someone will become a part of that and find you fascinating. You want that instead of finding someone who later feels she's babysitting you in order to keep you healthy. Some people think they want to mean the world to someone, but the truth is nobody wants that responsibility. People want to share their lives with someone who can share in return, not become their only meaning of it.

I assure you people are spending less time wondering why you don't have a girlfriend than you are. I doubt that when they look at you they are focused on the missing girl. People are more focused on what is there, than on what isn't. So, what is there? Make it awesome. For you, not for others. When you get that straight, she'll come. Then cum.

[pocaracas]

I'm guessing you're worrying too much about what other people think about your lack of gf, instead of worrying about what girls think you that makes stay away...
Do they stay away? Or do you stay away?
I understand it's a difficult situation... I myself had my first gf at... hmmm... 20 or 21, can't remember... and she had to do most of the work!
What did I do, prior to that?... well, I wasn't planning on having her as gf, that's for certain. But I just hung around her group. I did flirt with her a bit, but always respectfully.... eventually she approached me with further intents... and things happened.

It's a be the right person at the right time sort of thing, I guess...

[Jacob(smooth)]

I am almost 22 and still single and I pity those who end up in relationship too soon and realize they've done it wrong or too early.

Enjoy your life while you can. Before you have to think about kids or spouse.

Its true that you can still enjoy life after being in a relationship, but it requires you to be a grown up and intelligent planner.

The greatest people in the world were singles, who sacrificed their life for the greater good of humanity.

Now tell me, who's the looser now?

What this guy said!

As the good book says, there is a season for every activity. A season to stay up til 4am playing Cod and getting shit faced, and a season to get up early to make your wife breakfast. A time to have sex with the same woman you've been with 20 years and a time to watch porn with the volume up cos you can. A time for romantic dates and a time for strip clubs.

Don't rush your way through your freedom in your hurry to get your dick sucked. Enjoy it! You generally don't get to go back.

[thesummerqueen]

A time to have sex with the same woman you've been with 20 years and a time to watch porn with the volume up cos you can. A time for romantic dates and a time for strip clubs.

With the right person, these things aren't mutually exclusive. Although we do prefer burlesques to strip clubs.

[Jacob(smooth)]

A time to have sex with the same woman you've been with 20 years and a time to watch porn with the volume up cos you can. A time for romantic dates and a time for strip clubs.

With the right person, these things aren't mutually exclusive. Although we do prefer burlesques to strip clubs.

Quite true. You saucy thing!