RE: Quick Poll - Do you believe in God?
January 16, 2015 at 12:59 pm
(January 16, 2015 at 11:45 am)whateverist Wrote: Why do you think your response of answering both yes and no to the belief question is better? What does that get you that you would recommend it to others?
Wow, whateverist, you touch the heart of the question again.
This is a much tougher question for me to answer, and i have not found the exact answer yet. But i am willing to try:
i am a person who learned that 'and' is better than 'or'. With my three kids i learned them to be an 'and' person, not an 'or'person. Do you want chocolate or icecreame? >>> Can i have both? >>> yes, but then we will play, learn and sport double, okay? >>> yes. [example of such a conversation]
Non believing is 'normal', you grew up, you learn at 18 that everything has a reason, which we call the "causal phase" in philosophy. All things same to be reason or result. 'or' means, you leave the 'natural disorder' or in fact means you 'accept the natural disorder'.
This is ratio, our animal brain is very good in it.
But deeper, we have the 'old brain', the reptile brain part (which concludes our sex attractional system) and combines 'emotions'.
So i prefer people asking them to try the 'and' attitude: Instead of rejecting one or another (theism, atheism), try them both and tell my if that changes first your FEELINGS, and than if changes your thoughts/behaviour later on.
But you're right: i do NOT have any right to force another to change from 'or' to 'and'. Sometimes i get nerveous when they want me to do some in other cases.
I think of this example (or is it french exemple?): monotheism means one God, but then smart people dear to ask me to think of God as multiple gods: I had difficulties with that and a natural 'aversity' to tha, because with monotheism comes monogamy for me = one wife only, and then I learn you can love more than one women and that confuses me in a gigantic way so i have to take care of not 'falling down' with these thoughts.
But they were as right as you are here: so i did. And so i learned that the principle of more gods (boeddhisme is NOT a believe, you can have one or more gods when you are boeddhistic, it is a tolerant lifestyle, not a religion) is also 'human'. Only then i understood what i learned in my psychology history training about brains (21the century sciences): You have in all behaviour a bio side (read: genetic) and an 'environmental' side (read: education, friends, your own selfreprogramming). Only of 'religion' they found that there was 0% genetic in the brains, so religion seemed to be 100% 'menmade' or 'made by education or environment including familiy and friends and school.
You are right, next weekend (i am going to the biggest Belgium grand car salon, see
http://autosalon.be/en/salon/visiteur/ i will think about your 'or' opinion.
So i will tray the be one weekend a pure atheist, disregarding all deisme or theism to understand you all a little bit better.
Is religion emotional, or can it be rational? My problem is, after being some 10 years a harddied non believer, I eventually came to the same conclusion as I would have followed the bible with the 10 commandments. Perhaps I have to do this setting once over.
It is indeed this way: after being an atheist and coming to the same results as my childish (emotional? genetical however scientifically impossible?) belief, my belief doubled or hundredfolded after the unbelievable 'phase' (like water gets a very long time 100° celsius when boiling to brake their molecular structure, and only then goes up to spread everywhere freely as a gas molecular structure).
So truly: i do not really know why i want you to become an 'and' person instead of an 'or' person. Perhaps i see this matter wrong and you are more 'and' than i am, and i was at this point more fundamentalistic than you, guys?
i promise to think this over. Please criticize this more, it is relevant!
And do not let you convince of my right, or we can no longer argue about this nor discuss it anymore! I love duality, not being a monotonous mass that looks at it all from the same side as like the grass would only be green under our own feet...
1. If i step backwards, i am preparing to jump.
2. If you will not do it, i will.
3. I have never met a person who does not believe (in some...thing)