Are you okay with your (or your partner's) vajayjay?

[Edwardo Piet]

Whence the source of your anger? Is it really so impossible that you have some undiscovered homophobia in your heart, something which is not your fault because it is undiscovered, and which was implanted there without your awareness by the culture that says to fear our fellow man? But rather than stop and wonder, "do i  have such ideas?", you chose to lash out at me.

You're being pushy with me. How clear do I have to make it or spell it out to you?

No, it's not impossible but i'm not a homophobe. But also - you do seem awfully obsessed with the idea of me being homopbobic. Ever heard of psychological projection?

The fact that you felt the need to deflect with the stuff about not being attracted to men (I am also not attracted to men) as a way of dodging the question of whether or not you feel in your heart that the sex act of dick-sucking is itself a degrading and/or disguting thing to do, indicates to me that there's more going on beneath the surface.

I never said it was disgusting. I said I would find the act disgusting because I am straight and therefore it wouldn't be consensual. Honestly you are so distrustful.

If you want me to be pedantic and petty like you are, being repulsed by any sex act when experienced yourself regardless of sex is NOT homophobia. Homophobia is a form of anti-gay bigotry. Get a damn dictionary.

as a straight man I love sucking female tits but would it make me a homophobe if I didn't? You're making as much sense if you actually let me re-clarify myself.

  If there was nothing else going on, then you would have found it easy to just say, "Yeah I guess there's absolutely no problem with it. Not gross. Just not something I feel compelled to do."

I've already clarified that repeatedly and yet you push and push. If you cannot even let your 'opponent' in a debate re-clarify their position then you don't know how to debate.

You're pretty much just preaching to the choir and being pedantic and annoying and pushy and as you do it.

Again, I don't think you're a homophobe.

Then what a waste of time and energy and you did really upset me and I said I was sensitive. Thanks for that. Friends? Or are you still going to push back at me? Please stop, please drop your pride and just stop. Please.

Please just be my friend you're giving me a headache.