Evie, there's absolutely nothing wrong or homophobic with being a straight man who is grossed out by the thought of yourself having sex with another man. You seem to be getting defensive and trying to excuse your position on this. You don't have to. There is nothing wrong whatsoever with your position.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh