(October 6, 2015 at 10:12 pm)Exian Wrote: Understanding how to work the clit came more naturally to me than knowing how to please with penetration, precisely because its the male counterpart.
That makes sense, actually.
Quote:There was more of a curve to learning what a woman likes with penetration, and even then, it's not a for sure thing, since every woman is different, but even beyond that, I have nothing to compare it to like I do with the clit/penis comparison.
Honestly, I'm having a harder time understanding a man not liking tribadism.
yes, everyone's different, that's true.
I knew about the G-spot when I was 13, but I didn't even find my own until I was in my 30s.
But the male prostate is similar to a woman's g-spot, so, there you go.
I think tribadism is a very natural, very female thing...that even women tend to sweep aside like,
"oh, I won't miss it" but whenever its given a real chance, women always rave about it, gay or straight.
Of course I acknowledge it's not for everyone.
What's distressing is that some men would be threatened by it
...like it's too "male" or too aggressive a sexual thing for a woman to do.
Like RocketSurgeon observed:
so many men resent a woman taking charge of her own pleasure; he wants all the credit....and all the control...for it.
(failing to realize that he simultaneously puts himself under pressure, with it)
Quote:Anyways, I'd go on with more points to make, but I feel like I'm pushing it already.
what? the Area 69 thing? yes, I worried about that too,
but since it's an insightful and edifying discussion....and not merely cybersex....I don't think it's a big deal....is it???
