(October 6, 2015 at 10:19 pm)Whateverist the White Wrote:(October 6, 2015 at 10:03 pm)MTL Wrote: Well, I don't want you to feel OBLIGED or anything...only if you are interested.
Not at all, I am interested. And I had read the earlier one. Nice to get a frank appraisal from a woman. Definitely appreciate that.
Can I ask if you count your self as straight?
lol....this is another discussion I was sort of holding back, on, for fear it was A69-rated.
But here goes:
I identify as straight.
When I was younger, I called myself bisexual, but I didn't feel that was a fair representation of who I really am.
Now, don't misunderstand me:
If I was gay, there wouldn't BE a closet...the "closet" would be kindling, firewood.
I am very much in support of open, unapologetic LGBT pride.
But to say I'm "bisexual" doesn't really seem accurate, and this is why:
I prefer men, by a very large margin.
I can't imagine falling in love with a woman, myself.
I don't get any particular enjoyment out of kissing girls, holding hands with girls, or cuddling with girls.
However, if the circumstances were exactly right (which they are highly unlikely to ever be)
I could have sex with a woman, no problem.
It would be an "I'll-scratch-your-back-if-you-scratch-mine" type of thing.
But, as I say, the circumstances would have to be EXACTLY PERFECT for that to actually happen
....and I won't consider my life any the poorer, if it never happens.
I will admit, to my shame, that many years ago,
if I had heard a man say something similar, like,
" Oh, I'm not gay, but I don't mind getting a blowjob from a dude, "
I would have scoffed and said he was in denial....that he was closeted gay.
Now, I understand a bit better....mutual gratification doesn't necessarily mean you're gay.
It just means you're cooperating with someone you're comfortable with.
