Are you okay with your (or your partner's) vajayjay?

[Ravenshire]

Let's talk about some Vajayjay.

I like one that is meaty as in beef curtains. Nibbling and tugging on roast beef with my lips and tongue is where it is.

Also, I like a large clit. One that is large enough to look like a small weeny. Flicking (with tongue) and biting (lightly) that thang drives me nuts.

The smell is arousing. If I'm really horney, I like it to stink some. Every time I thrust in I like the smell to waft up.

I will say this, though:

a lot of what you mention is stuff women are self-conscious about.

Men who make women self-conscious about their pussy for any reason are either ignorant, complete fucking assholes or both. The ignorant need a mentor. The assholes need a beat-down. If they're both... Fuck it. Just neuter 'em.

Women are now paying for plastic surgery to have their labia reduced in size.

This is wrong on so many levels. The risk of nerve damage alone is more than enough reason to avoid surgery in and around the pink bits. The very idea that a man can treat a woman so poorly that she'll consider having a doctor cut up her pussy for aesthetics goes well beyond appalling.

Then, I've heard guys complain that pussies are ugly and all I can do is stare at them in utter shock and disbelief. It does make me wonder where they got their sense of aesthetics though because they certainly have poor taste.

Some women with large clits are very embarrassed by them...though not all.
and I think its because some men feel the opposite as you do, about them:

Some men avoid even a small clitoris, since it is the part on a female that corresponds to the penis of a male,
and they feel "gay" if they pay it too much attention, or something;

so some women feel ashamed of their clitoris or wanting attention paid to it,
since it is apparently deemed by their male partners as being an "unfeminine" characteristic.

Guys can be seriously fucking stupid about some things (most things when it comes to sex). Yes, the clitoris is "where the dick would be if she were a he." But, she's not. These same guys probably have no problem slobbering like dogs all over a woman's boobs even though they have those "if he were a she, this is where the boobs would be" nipples on their chest. Some basic biology and a little google searching would show them that a clitoris is not a dick, no matter how big it is. It doesn't have the same purpose (obviously), the same

Of course, if they gave a shit about whether their girl is getting off or not...

As to scent, obviously it is one of the things women are most self-conscious about,
and the feminine hygiene industry has done everything it can to increase this self-consciousness and exploit it.

I've read some blogs and comments from men, online, over the years,
and from what I've seen, the general sentiment amongst men
seems to be the EXACT OPPOSITE of what women think it is.

This is where lovers need to learn to listen to each other. Soooo many don't and it's on both sides.

Scent has certainly become exploited by the modern hygiene industry. It's not as prevalent on television now as it has been in the past (or maybe I watch the wrong shows for these particular advertisers), but I can remember being inundated with commercials about those "not so fresh days" trying to sell what essentially came down to pussy perfume. I can't say that I enjoy the smell of a funky, worked her ass off, sweaty pussy, but I do love the natural aroma of a healthy pussy. On the odd occasion I have a little trouble getting the soldier to come to attention, a few deep breaths of it makes him stand right up!

Women think they're either supposed to have no scent whatsoever,
or smell like a bouquet of roses.

I've heard men complain about women with no scent, however;

and I've heard some men get downright annoyed, or even completely turned-off,
when a woman smells artificially of flowers or baby powder or something.

No scent at all (actually, very little since none at all is impossible) isn't something I'll complain about, because I know how to get her going and smelling just fine in no time. All the artificial "pussy perfumes" on the other hand... Ugh! It's not so much the smell, though that's bad enough, it's the fucking taste. It completely overwhelms all the pussy's natural flavors with chemical tasting nastiness. It's like spraying a steak with "Jasmine and Rain Lysol." It might make the steak smell pretty (probably not, but maybe), but who the fuck want's to eat it.