(June 9, 2016 at 8:09 pm)Wyrd of Gawd Wrote:(June 9, 2016 at 5:25 pm)FatAndFaithless Wrote: I feel like I'm taking crazy pills here. Was Wyrd of Gawd always this fucking insane? Have I just not seen his other horrific posts?
The poster ratted herself out. I responded to her comment based on common sense and the norms of our society. She claimed that she had been raped countless times. So if she wasn't confined she was a willing participant and kept putting herself in the very position that she claims was so horrible for her. That indicates a total lack of good sense. Fully grown adults are supposed to have sense enough to protect themselves. Sure, she could have been a legitimate victim of the first rape. That wouldn't be her fault. But to go on and constantly repeat the experience over the course of months or years is simply stupid. There are countless people she could have reported her situation to and received the necessary help to remove herself from danger.
I'm not giving gold stars to stupid people. If people don't want to be considered to be stupid then they should stop ratting themselves out for doing stupid things year after year.
Everyone does something stupid once in a while. But people quickly learn from their mistakes and change their behavior to protect themselves. The poster was a slow learner and the experiences must have been tolerable. Now she has buyer's remorse. And the thread is about "taking some fucking responsibility!"
Well technically I was only 16 the first time he raped me and 17 when I married him at the insistence of my parents. I did initially try reaching out to family and church members and even my pastor. But I was constantly told it was my fault. I get what you're saying though, honestly I do. I've said in other threads before that I regret not having left sooner. I spent a long time blaming myself too. But the truth is, regardless of my own stupid choices, he still raped me and beat me among other things. I am not responsible for his actions. I didn't make him do those things to me. That was his doing. All this being said despite the fact that you are just trolling because you're a Douchenozzle, of course.
