Unfortunately, your parents can still make you go to church. What they can't do is make you believe. All you can do is go, and do something else while the sermon is going on. When you're independent, then they can't make you do anything. Rebelling now is only going to get you more trouble. I know you think you're in the right. But by acting up all you're doing is reinforcing the idea in their head that there's something 'wrong' with you. Sometimes being compliant is all you can do. How bad is the church you're going to?
The whole tone of Church teaching in regard to woman is, to the last degree, contemptuous and degrading. - Elizabeth Cady Stanton