Tricky situation mate, not sure if I'll be of much help.
Maybe start off lite, tell her you're a Deist, that you believe in a god but not that Jesus was his son.... Perhaps that will be less of a shock to her. Try something like "I don't believe in Jesus but I'm willing to come and ponder religious thoughts in church with you while you worship him" or something along those lines.
Maybe start off lite, tell her you're a Deist, that you believe in a god but not that Jesus was his son.... Perhaps that will be less of a shock to her. Try something like "I don't believe in Jesus but I'm willing to come and ponder religious thoughts in church with you while you worship him" or something along those lines.
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