I met my wife as a Christian, and lost my faith about 5 years after we were married. The only problem to our relationship was my intense hatred of our old church, which manifested itself in me ranting about it at any opportunity. This had been festering before my de-conversion. My wife carried on loving me and making exceptions for my behaviour. I carried on loving her. We were both from non Christian backgrounds.
I just think you need to be honest. You with her and her with you. Honesty with each other is of utmost importance. That trust mustn't be taken lightly. If you lie to her about this, something so important to you, then your partnership isn't worth much. If she can't accept that a person can change, and respect your opinions and beliefs, then her partnership with you isn't worth much either.
I just think you need to be honest. You with her and her with you. Honesty with each other is of utmost importance. That trust mustn't be taken lightly. If you lie to her about this, something so important to you, then your partnership isn't worth much. If she can't accept that a person can change, and respect your opinions and beliefs, then her partnership with you isn't worth much either.
