RE: Why Does No One Change the Incorrect Relationship Narrative?
October 3, 2016 at 6:41 pm
(This post was last modified: October 3, 2016 at 6:43 pm by mlmooney89.)
Okay so taking it from the other side of your never been married or in a relationship longer than a few months I have been married twice now. My first husband and I were together for 7 years and my husband now and I are in a nearly 5 year relationship. I literally haven't been without a significant other since I was 16 years old.
My first husband was agnostic and my current one is Catholic. I have been atheist since I was 14 so both relationships I went/going through godless.
I don't actually want to live for forever but when I say "I will love you for forever" or similar it means my forever, that is until I cease to be because once I'm dead my forever is over. The happily ever after is the same thing just not so dark. They say forever but really mean until I die. Now religious people, we have already determined, are scared of death which is why they normally hold onto their religion so yes their forever encompasses all of time but come on they aren't the best ones to be analyzing for scientific thinking. I just know that I'm not looking for a real forever with my husband I'm just trying to be happy while I have him.
Basically everyone just wants to die happy and with the person they love. That is happily ever after without the Disney aspect to it.
My first husband was agnostic and my current one is Catholic. I have been atheist since I was 14 so both relationships I went/going through godless.
I don't actually want to live for forever but when I say "I will love you for forever" or similar it means my forever, that is until I cease to be because once I'm dead my forever is over. The happily ever after is the same thing just not so dark. They say forever but really mean until I die. Now religious people, we have already determined, are scared of death which is why they normally hold onto their religion so yes their forever encompasses all of time but come on they aren't the best ones to be analyzing for scientific thinking. I just know that I'm not looking for a real forever with my husband I'm just trying to be happy while I have him.
Basically everyone just wants to die happy and with the person they love. That is happily ever after without the Disney aspect to it.
“What screws us up the most in life is the picture in our head of what it's supposed to be.”
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