RE: Why Does No One Change the Incorrect Relationship Narrative?
October 3, 2016 at 6:57 pm
(This post was last modified: October 3, 2016 at 6:57 pm by Gemini.)
(October 3, 2016 at 11:54 am)InquiringMind Wrote: So why do people consistently have such unrealistic expectations? Why do people continue to believe in such a romantic and idealized view of relationships in spite of abundant evidence to the contrary?
Why do people still believe in angels? I don't know. Well, I guess I do, I just can't relate to those beliefs.
I didn't believe in that idealized view of relationships when I married my husband (close to nine years ago) and I haven't been disappointed. I expected we would have our fights and our times when we couldn't stand each other and we did. And I would say our relationship is better now than ever. Honesty, even if it's painful sometimes, is better than bullshit any day.
A Gemma is forever.