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Why Does No One Change the Incorrect Relationship Narrative?
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RE: Why Does No One Change the Incorrect Relationship Narrative?
(October 3, 2016 at 11:54 am)InquiringMind Wrote: So why do people consistently have such unrealistic expectations?  Why do people continue to believe in such a romantic and idealized view of relationships in spite of abundant evidence to the contrary?

Why do people still believe in angels? I don't know. Well, I guess I do, I just can't relate to those beliefs.

I didn't believe in that idealized view of relationships when I married my husband (close to nine years ago) and I haven't been disappointed. I expected we would have our fights and our times when we couldn't stand each other and we did. And I would say our relationship is better now than ever. Honesty, even if it's painful sometimes, is better than bullshit any day.
A Gemma is forever.
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RE: Why Does No One Change the Incorrect Relationship Narrative? - by Gemini - October 3, 2016 at 6:57 pm

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