How the fuck is there a statute of limitations for rape in New York?

[Joods]

How does one tell when the other person changes their mind?

This is the reason I said only people who truly love, trust and understand each other to a t should do this, lest an actual rape occurs or a false one gets reported.

This could probably use its own thread tbh. It's hard to keep up with both conversations. In any sane relationship the people acting out the fantasy sex would have an agreed upon way for the fake victim to convey that they have changed their mind. Be it using a safe word, snapping their fingers, blinking their eyes. Anyone who goes into a scene like that without figuring those things out first is putting themselves at risk.

Funnily enough, I made that suggestion, in a nice way, and got my head bit off.