(May 22, 2017 at 5:21 pm)SteveII Wrote: I have not changed my position one iota.
Children are not taught how to be selfish, hurtful, disobedient, dishonest etc. yet they are. There is only one possible conclusion--they are born that way.
What about they are living beings that, like all other creatures, first value themselves (selfishness)? It is the primal instincts of survival and the lack of ability to "read minds" that make them easily understand their own needs but harder to understand the others.
If disobedience is sin, then what is the virtue, slavery?
Why should obeying the "Do what I tell you!" be a virtue?
What if children are not "broken", but rather they grow and learn? And what if social skills are being learned rather than being built into their DNA?
And what if children need to disobey you in order to learn that they have freedom of choice, also so that they learn what happens if they do otherwise?
What if "wrong" does not equal "broken" but rather is an opportunity to learn?
