RE: Does Anyone Else Ever Feel Like This...?
November 16, 2017 at 10:01 am
(This post was last modified: November 16, 2017 at 10:02 am by Mr.Obvious.)
(November 16, 2017 at 8:13 am)Hammy Wrote: @Mr Obvious
I think you are overcomplicating and expecting too much from happiness. Happiness is neither being 100% happy nor is the absence of unhappiness any different to the presence of happiness. Happiness is just an emotion and if you're not not happy then you're happy. I don't think happiness is anything special but I do think it's elusive. It's hard to make sense of when we aren't sure what we have is good enough to convince ourselves that we are happy.
Maybe. Though I got the feeling that I've got a clear look on what happiness is. I don't feel like I expect too much from happiness.
I just feel our obssession with it is an artifical construct. That we are driven to be happy by external factors and actors who dangle a cheap and sparkly knock-off in front of us: The coca-cola commercial of life, if you will. Plastic smiles and impossible standards.
We believe the conquest so much that we allow it to consume us; forgetting that happiness is not a destination to be reached but the journey itself. That its not something to be forced but found through balance and acceptance in your own life.
I get the feeling we agree on happiness a lot more than this conversation might let on, at first sight, but that we are talking in different terms and from different angles.
"If we go down, we go down together!"
- Your mum, last night, suggesting 69.
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- Your mum, last night, suggesting 69.
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