(November 21, 2017 at 3:47 pm)Shell B Wrote: Yeah, you've got it right. Just do stuff with him to take his mind off it until he decides to open up about it, if he does. Nothing soothes like distraction.
It isn't even cold to say that with death of a loved one.
I will never get over my mom's death. But if it were not for the constant talks with friends and family I would have killed myself.
Tibs was there for me that day. He wasn't my first call, but he was available. I cant begin to thank him for being my ear, like John "Rubber Ducky" and many others.
It sucks when things go wrong, but it always helps to have support when they do.
But if I could talk to him myself. Oh my THOR, if I had a nickle for every time I got rejected I'd make 45 like like a street wino. Good thing for me now is that I am old, been through it, and now to the point of simply wanting to be myself.