RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
January 22, 2018 at 4:14 am
(This post was last modified: January 22, 2018 at 4:31 am by Joods.)
(January 22, 2018 at 3:56 am)Thumpalumpacus Wrote:(January 22, 2018 at 2:38 am)Joods Wrote: Wow Thump, just wow. First of all - I NEVER said she didn't report it. I questioned WHY she would go to a reporter first. Yet you still refuse to read anything that's actually there. But as usual - take your cues from your girl and keep misrepresenting what really was said.
Fact is, you've argued through this thread that her not reporting it to the police undermines her claim. Here, let's read your own words, as you wrote them [all emphases were added by me -- Thump]:
(January 17, 2018 at 10:19 pm)Joods Wrote: she hasn't filed charges [...]. So until we see that she moves forward with pressing charges, then I think I can safely say that she wasn't sexually assaulted but perhaps she feels jilted because he's famous [...]
Below is what I actually wrote before you intentionally left out parts of not only the first sentence you quoted, but the second one as well. Just because you added bold to my quote to show emphasis, doesn't give you the right to edit it by removing certain words and making it look like I said something that I didn't. That's dishonest. You have been intentionally misrepresenting me and I'm reporting you for it.
(January 17, 2018 at 10:19 pm)Joods Wrote: But this guy hasn't been charged with anything, she hasn't filed charges, he seemed genuinely remorse and tried to consider her feelings by showing some empathy the very next day. None of us were there and we weren't privy to the conversation that took place. So until we see that she moves forward with pressing charges, then I think I can safely say that she wasn't sexually assaulted but perhaps she feels jilted because he's famous, the little bit of contact they did have was awkward and she's mad that it wasn't any better. It makes no sense to accuse someone of sexual assault if the first place you go to is a reporter instead of the police or even a rape crisis center. Most victims of this type of crime don't want their name plastered in papers because of the type of crime. I know I sure as hell didn't want my name out there.
JFC. I am done with certain people. If I made a remark or a statement in where I forgot to use the word "first", then fucking shoot me. Clearly, anyone can see from the stance on this that I have taken, the fact that I have stood by and defended my position for dozens of pages now. I have been emotional and passionate about this thread and I am human. All one has to do is clearly understand that and they would understand that typing errors certainly do happen and I'm not perfect.
I have maintained and will continue to maintain that I did not accuse this woman of NOT going to the police. If she has, we don't see where any charges have been filed. That doesn't mean she didn't file. It could simply mean that the police haven't found enough evidence to move forward with an arrest yet. It's called doing an investigation.
Some of you need to get the fuck off my back about the fact that I have every right to want to discuss the fact that she called a reporter before calling the police.
If you don't like that I question this woman and her story and that I personally don't feel like she was sexually assaulted then oh. Fucking. Well. I'm not the only one who feels that way. Get off my fucking back.
I don't have to agree with your viewpoints. That does not give YOU the fucking right to accuse me of being a victim blamer. It gives you the right to refute my viewpoints with YOUR OWN and NOT berate me or try and belittle me for having my own fucking opinions. You let this discussion get out of hand when you also accused CL of having some religious agenda.
That's two people's words you have intentionally twisted in this thread. I don't know what the fuck your deal is, but if you keep doing this, you're going to continue losing the respect of other people here. I don't know about you, but to me, that doesn't seem like a smart road to drive down . But by all means....you're behind the wheel. Do what you want.
Disclaimer: I am only responsible for what I say, not what you choose to understand.