Is it normal be a hetro-sexual and having no relationship experience?

[rskovride]

 It definitely sounds condescending. But that's just because we treat women like shit. Reality is pretty condescending to women, so if I describe reality, and it seems condescending, I think I'm in the ballpark.

You are not describing reality by making a broad generalization like "Reality is pretty condescending to women" and you aren't going to back pedal out of being condescending after writing "the future of polyamory is frequently going to be gross random old guys or cats".  Admit it and move on. I'm not here to judge, I'm condescending sometimes to but if called on it I would admit it. 

You have to flesh it out a little.  Why does Hollywood prefer younger women even though older women tend to be better actresses?  Hollywood is in the money making business.  Who they pick is a reflection of the populace.

But you can see it anywhere really.  Ever see an athletes wife?  Or a billionaire?  Basically, almost any time a guy can pick whoever he wants, chubby 50 year old ladies are not in the picture.

I don't accept that picks made by Hollywood, athletes, or billionaires is a reflection of the populace because the vast majority of the populace is not in any of these situations.  This is yet another baseless claim and this one in particular is non-sense.

 Shelf dates are bad for any person in any competition.

 

Now the real issue finally presents itself.  Polyamory is not a competition and should not be viewed as such.  Of course some women don't want extra competition but that is not what we are talking about. 

I didn't say polyamory is bad for all women.  I said there's a lot not to like for older women, particularly if they aren't willing to settle for what they can get.

You did, in fact,reference all women. I'm assuming 'ladyfolk' means women. 

 And if you're one of the ladyfolk, and you've got a bit of a shelf date on your desirability, and the future of polyamory is frequently going to be gross random old guys or cats, it's probably not as appealing to skip the permanent partner search.