The Bible condemns homosexuality.

[John V]

There's no way of avoiding it though,

Yes, there is. Repent and be forgiven.

she's not going to repent for something she doesn't feel the need to repent for.  That'd be fucking stupid.

Killing people and robbing churches because they think she does need to repent wouldn't be fucking stupid because...?

Also some eternal punishment for having sex with her wife, for her, would be worse than worse eternal punishment for actually doing things she considers bad.  The psychological aspect to torture.  

Going to a prison where they give you crappy food for life for littering isn't necessarily better than going to prison where they give you crappy food and lashings every day for murdering people.

The murderer has it better than the litterer psychologically.

Said by a person who hasn't endured daily lashings.