Yet, when I use to talk with a softer tone and pick words wisely like "I feel that..." etc, people attacked me for not having a tone of certainty. Even when I clarified, it's for the sake of etiquette I do so, people said I should not because it makes as if I am not even convinced of my own arguments.
You are damned if you and damned if you don't.
You are damned if you and damned if you don't.