Ok guys, let me see if I got your message................
You say...........IF MY GROWN UP BOY (NOW A MAN) DOES SOMETHING VERY WRONG I AM FULLY RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS ACTIONS.
and...........i am evil because I can not prevent my grown up son to do evil things.
One more thing.
Suppose somebody rape and kill your lovely only daughter what sort of punishment would you give to the one who did that?
Would you forget and forgive or would you ask for maximum revenge?

You say...........IF MY GROWN UP BOY (NOW A MAN) DOES SOMETHING VERY WRONG I AM FULLY RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS ACTIONS.
and...........i am evil because I can not prevent my grown up son to do evil things.
One more thing.
Suppose somebody rape and kill your lovely only daughter what sort of punishment would you give to the one who did that?

Would you forget and forgive or would you ask for maximum revenge?