"Jesus would rather kill, not marry, gay people" - Franklin Graham

[Amarok]

You have said that the belief is hateful, but you just admitted that it is not. 

And if I knew you, you would have the same opinion of me. I have a dozen gay acquaintances (and probably a couple of relatives) and have never said boo to them. If they every asked me, I would explain exactly what I have explained here like 9 times in this thread alone. No hate, no judgement. From my perspective the issue is between you and God.

It does not matter if you regard there free expression of their sexuality or their desire to be in relationship as immoral you are being ideologically bigoted .But most Christians keep it to themselves .