(September 17, 2018 at 1:10 am)Whateverist Wrote: Yeah, sexuality is pretty fluid, but not evenly so for everyone. Some are way over on the hetero side while others way over on the other end. I think "born that way" is more true for some than others.
IDK, Whatevs. When I find that some guy who is "way over on the hetero side" I wonder if the fluidity is not boiling furiously just underneath the lid.
Same goes for the other end of the spectrum. I've had gay friends who I wondered "how the fuck can you be that gay." I think some gay people omit any underlying fluidity from their public sexual persona in much the same way hetero "tough guys" do. Not that either one isn't firmly hetero or firmly gay-- they probably are. It's just that I view a person "too far" in one direction as suspiciously unrealistic.
