Not just catholics!

[Drich]

Or it can be used as a life lesson, build a foundation that strengthen a person's core and their abilities and sensibilities unlike anything else they can experience in life.

or it can be used to make a person a perpetual victim.

And again you did not answer my question. it was just a single moral dilemma it was a matter of several you crapped out. you only answered 1/4 of the questions asked. so in turn you get 1/4 of a response.

It appears to me that you have no moral dilemas  ... you have created your own morallity and use your interpretation of an anciet book, the bible, to justify everything you want to do .....

Your questions are posed with ambiguity  ... like if I asked  ... "have you stopped beating your children?" and then expecting a yes or no answer  ... either answer reflects badly on a person answering in such a manner 

You are wrong. I simply do not judge behavior with popular moral standards.

I can identify and adhere to the law I can identify what soceity deems as right and wrong, but I can also see these right and wrong judgements are based on a sliding scale in most cases. meaning I do not always share what is right and what s wrong simply because it is the popular standard. My standard come from a standard that does not change. it is not the rule from which one ascribes to be an OT Jew but from a place of love/Agape' Love for God and love for my neighbor in the same proportion as I have for myself. meaning my own instinctual self preservational desires regulate and extend my efforts to my neighbors on par with all that I would do for my self. 

This far exceeds any trivial en masse decision/morality of what is right and what is wrong in this moment. my love for my neighbor will happily see me to break any moral code to secure for them anything I see myself in need of. like wise service to my God is not bound by such trivial demands that change fast than political correctness.

Big picture sport not what mouth breathers demand is fair and or equitable for the moment. What if good for the species what is good for the indivisual even if right now they are in pain.

Don't limit yourself by what pop culture define as moral as it is most often wrong.