(November 12, 2011 at 6:35 pm)Cinjin Wrote: I'm more of a go-with-the-flow kinda guy. I try never to over-think any of it. It is what it is.
Arousal factor and spontaneity are everything in my humble opinion. I'd rather have unplanned sex on the hood of a car than a scheduled event in an S&M chamber any day of the year.
just my humble opinion though ... to each his/her own.
. . . and there it is.