(December 22, 2022 at 12:34 pm)Ranjr Wrote: It may not land you a Barbie, but it works with Malibu Amber, Skipper's hot mom.
"Incel" being a thing and mindset puzzles and concerns me. It reflects a lack of communication and understanding. Then there are guys I see at bars and shows, in their mid 20's, who probably do have sex, thanks to swipe right apps. But, they hang out with other dudes. Dough bros, I call them. They look like they used to work out, but not so much anymore. It's a very different scene from the 70's and 80's. A disconnect between genders occurred since my heyday. I hope Gen A works it out.
Back in the day (in my old codger voice) there was a guy who was pretty creepy and not attractive to me at all. He had come home from the military and was back in the group he used to run with before I moved to that town...so I didn't know the history. The guy I was dating (father of my oldest) was hot and was known for dating good looking women and for being pursued by most of the women around. I was punching above my weight with him. Anyway, creepy guy apparently in days past had tried to get with my boyfriend's prior long-term women...who were both gorgeous. He had failed miserably. I guess he figured since I didn't meet the standards of Nan or Connie that he had a chance with me. In fact, he got quite angry with me one night for turning him down yet again. I had to have a bouncer help me out after creepy guy started yelling at me - his main 'line' - is Lance a better man than I am? Actually yes...let me count the ways. I believe that was my first encounter with an incel. We just didn't call them that back in the 70s.
Now, the Internet seems to be their place for gnashing of teeth and blaming women for not being attracted to every swinging dick that makes a move.
I'm your huckleberry.